Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Well everyone guess what ....... I realised I am over him!!!!! YAY Mr Driveby is no more, Kaput, Finito! (however you spell it lol) I went out to his club last night and I barely even remembered he was there! I was talking to guys all night and was getting lots of attention (much needed I must say) And at one point I looked up and saw him looking at me talking to a guy called Tony - I just looked away and forgot he was there! My friend told me today that he had a girl hanging out of him and I didnt even notice and to top it off I do not even care! I wish her luck with all of his crap lol Thank you so much for all of your support guys - You are GREAT!
lilmoma1973 Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Congrats Lishy i am so proud of you !!! I knew you could do it.. Good luck with the fishing hunt...
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 I feel liberated Lil lol And Lil you have been so nice to me through all of this!!!! Thank you
lilmoma1973 Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Your welcome and always will be here for you if you need me !! Remember that's what friends are for.. I have gotten great advice from my fellow shacker's as well!! You are such a sweet and smart lady and you had to give your heart time to heal and realize that you didn't need him..
Becoming Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Just in the few months I've been on LS I've seen lots of progress in you Lishy! You go girl! You're gonna do fine because you ARE fine.
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 Oh thank you so much Becoming - Hearing that has really made me smile!!!!!!! The support at the Shack is second to none - And when I have been repetitive no-one has called me out on it and that is so helpful when you feel that no one is judging you! I honestly feel like a weight has been lifted!
Lonestar Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Good for you, Lishy. You can do better than that jerk anyway. Find yourself a guy who really cares about you. I'm glad you had a great time.
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 I have just recieved a text from him that was sent last night at 3.30am saying he is leaving the club now and am I ok I have no intention of replying Wow this feel goooooood!!!!!!!!!!!!
kitten chick Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Wow, that is so great Lishy. Looks like he's realizing what he missed and the opportunity is gone. Sounds like he'll come a knockin soon so prepare yourself. I'm so glad that you went out with your friends and didn't let him interfere with your life.
alphamale Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Well everyone guess what ....... I realised I am over him!!!!! I beg to differ LISHY....mainly because you're still going to his place of employ. Aren't there any other clubs or bars in town you could go to? And the 2nd reason I don't think you're over him yet is cause you started this thread.
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 Lol Alpha I went to his club because my friend chose to go there for her birthday and I could not tell her where to go and I started this thread so I could tell everyone who has helped me the end result! If I was not over him would I have not replied to his text? I have no inclination to text him back at all! That is major for me! I hate having to explain myself as it just sounds like excuses! 1
cygny Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Lishy tell us your secret to getting over him, and how long did it take you? congrats, btw!
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 There is no secret babe - It took 4 months! and the only thing that done it was TIME! I allowed myself the feelings I felt and I spoke about it on here consistently and listened to advice I was given. No one here (except Alpha) judged me. Slubber, Walk and Clobsy had full PM boxes most days and never complained lol - Thank you guys you are great!!!!!!!!! So Cyg it is just time - Allow your feelings and dont feel bad for it! Plus get out and socialise!!!!!!!
alphamale Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 No one here (except Alpha) judged me. I'm not judging LISHY, i'm just playing devils advocate. Don't you think that if you were really "over" him that you wouldn't post this thread? "over"=indifference.
whichwayisup Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 She was just giving an update, that's all Mr Devil... I'm sure after this thread she won't be posting about Mr Driveby anymore.
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 Lol Alpha I went to his club because my friend chose to go there for her birthday and I could not tell her where to go and I started this thread so I could tell everyone who has helped me the end result! quote]
alphamale Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Did you read what i wrote ALPHA? yes, see bolded parts below: I went out to his club last night and I barely even remembered he was there! I was talking to guys all night and was getting lots of attention (much needed I must say) And at one point I looked up and saw him looking at me talking to a guy called Tony - I just looked away and forgot he was there! so you remembered he was there even thought it was "barely" and you also made eye contact with him.... i rest my case
noclobber Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Well everyone guess what ....... I realised I am over him!!!!! YAY Mr Driveby is no more, Kaput, Finito! (however you spell it lol) I went out to his club last night and I barely even remembered he was there! I was talking to guys all night and was getting lots of attention (much needed I must say) And at one point I looked up and saw him looking at me talking to a guy called Tony - I just looked away and forgot he was there! My friend told me today that he had a girl hanging out of him and I didnt even notice and to top it off I do not even care! I wish her luck with all of his crap lol Thank you so much for all of your support guys - You are GREAT! That's great Lishy!! If you realize it from your heart that he does not have any more impact on you then you are truly over him... Glad for you babe... just one suggestion, avoid going to his club anymore.
whichwayisup Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 yes, see bolded parts below: so you remembered he was there even thought it was "barely" and you also made eye contact with him.... i rest my case The point is she didn't "feel" anything for him anymore. She didn't react nor did she care... I rest my case now...
alphamale Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 The point is she didn't "feel" anything for him anymore. my point was why was LISHY in the same building as him and looking at him... 1
whichwayisup Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 my point was why was LISHY in the same building as him and looking at him... Cuz she was invited to that particular place and he was there. No big deal. Now, if she had gone over to talk to him or flirt with him, then that would be a whole nother thread now, wouldn't it? But, it didn't happen that way... Looking is one thing, that doesn't mean she still has feelings for him. Infact, not looking is harder and would mean she would be making an effort NOT to see him. So infact, looking was the right thing to do! Make sense?
Author Lishy Posted February 5, 2006 Author Posted February 5, 2006 THANK YOU WWIU!!!!!!! I wanted to reply but I did not have the energy lol Alpha picks out one part of what you say and pulls it to pieces - It is as if he just does not get the gist of what is being said! I looked purely by acident! But he was probably looking over much more than I saw - I just happened to notoce it ONCE - It was not an effort to not see him, I forgot he was even there!
newbby Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 That's great Lishy!! If you realize it from your heart that he does not have any more impact on you then you are truly over him... Glad for you babe... just one suggestion, avoid going to his club anymore. why should she avoid going there if she is over him?
whichwayisup Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 THANK YOU WWIU!!!!!!! I wanted to reply but I did not have the energy lol Alpha picks out one part of what you say and pulls it to pieces - It is as if he just does not get the gist of what is being said! I looked purely by acident! But he was probably looking over much more than I saw - I just happened to notoce it ONCE - It was not an effort to not see him, I forgot he was even there! You're welcome. I love bantering with alpha. Oh no, he does get the gist of it, he just won't ever admit to it that's all!
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