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Of course by BBS I mean Bitter Bitch Syndrome. Anyway as part of my job I go to luncheons with big business people and sometimes these things fall on weekends. Today I had a luncheon and a woman was talking about how there are no good men left and I wondered why she thought this way. She was attractice successful and educated but when she opened her mouth more I figured out why. She had BBS. She started ranting about how horrible men are and how she thinks women have the right to cheat. She kept going on and on with the malebashing and she wonders why she can't find a man. It is because she is a manhater. A man can spot a misandrist from a mile away and it is obvious if a woman is one. Women that hate men just give off a vibe and every man knows what I am talking about. No matter how physichally beauitiful a woman is if she gives off this vibe I stay clear.

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and a woman was talking about how there are no good men left and I wondered why she thought this way

 

This is hilarious coming from a man who continually says there are virtually no good women and that all women are bitches/idiots/money-grabbers, etc. etc.

 

Not too pretty when you see yourself in a mirror, eh Woggie?

 

Ever think she's been with a few too many BJS ?

(Bitter Jerk Syndrome)

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This is hilarious coming from a man who continually says there are virtually no good women and that all women are bitches/idiots/money-grabbers, etc. etc.

 

Not too pretty when you see yourself in a mirror, eh Woggie?

 

Ever think she's been with a few too many BJS ?

(Bitter Jerk Syndrome)

 

The hard truth is that many women are attracted to bad boys while most men want a nice girl. Also I never said all women and I am starting to see things more clearly. There are bitches and ladies. I love ladies but I can't stand bitches and I refuse to treat a bitch like a lady.

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The female version:

 

Of course by BAS I mean Bitter a**h*** Syndrome. Anyway as part of my job I go to luncheons with big business people and sometimes these things fall on weekends. Today I had a luncheon and a man was talking about how there are no good women left and I wondered why he thought this way. He was attractice successful and educated but when he opened his mouth more I figured out why. He had BAS. He started ranting about how horrible women are and how he thinks men have the right to cheat. He kept going on and on with the femalebashing and he wonders why he can't find a woman. It is because he is a womanhater. A woman can spot a misogynist from a mile away and it is obvious if a man is one. Men that hate women just give off a vibe and every woman knows what I am talking about. No matter how intellectually attractive a man is if he gives off this vibe I stay clear.

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The hard truth is that many women are attracted to bad boys

 

I thought you had started to come out of your little den of misery. For the umpty-zillionth time, GIRLS are attracted to 'bad boys', WOMEN want decent men. I wish someone would get it straight.

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I must say that I truly hate people that say there are no good members of the opposite sex left, or people that look down on others for being a certain sex. (Man, I can’t tell you how many feminist lesbians look down at me for being born with a penis. It’s ridicules.)

 

A few girls have told me that there are no good males left. I tell them that maybe they just aren’t looking hard enough and they will find someone eventually, or if they say it in a negative way I say “Well perhaps you just aren’t worthy of a good man because you’re a friggen bitch!”

 

Lots of males have said the same thing. And my words are no different. They will either find someone or they wont because they are total jerkoff’s.

 

There are tons upon tons of humans on the planet people! I’m sure if you scour the earth relentlessly you will find someone that meets your standards! Yesh.

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I thought you had started to come out of your little den of misery. For the umpty-zillionth time, GIRLS are attracted to 'bad boys', WOMEN want decent men. I wish someone would get it straight.

I am very happy but I still speak my mind and always will.

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I am very happy but I still speak my mind and always will.

 

That is a good quality to posses, but just because you speak your mind doesn’t make you immune to being wrong. :p

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That is a good quality to posses, but just because you speak your mind doesn’t make you immune to being wrong. :p

 

I am not perfect but tell me you don't know a few woman like this.

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I am not perfect but tell me you don't know a few woman like this.

 

Yeah well I also know a man that thinks he’s Jesus Christ.

 

You can’t rationalize all females on the planet into stereotypical groups because of the ideals/morals they posses. Just because some girls are attracted to “Bad Boys” doesn’t make them any less of a person.

 

That’s like me calling you an idiot because you like hamburgers better then cheeseburgers. You can’t rationally look down upon someone for their opinions/preferences.

 

Life is waaaaay to short for crap like that.

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Yeah well I also know a man that thinks he’s Jesus Christ.

 

You can’t rationalize all females on the planet into stereotypical groups because of the ideals/morals they posses. Just because some girls are attracted to “Bad Boys” doesn’t make them any less of a person.

 

That’s like me calling you an idiot because you like hamburgers better then cheeseburgers. You can’t rationally look down upon someone for their opinions/preferences.

 

Life is waaaaay to short for crap like that.

 

I never said all women were like that. I am happily engaged so I clearly do not hate all women but I do point out the truth about certain members of the female gender.

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I never said all women were like that. I am happily engaged so I clearly do not hate all women but I do point out the truth about certain members of the female gender.

 

Truth? What truth. That some types of girls like some types of guys better then others?

 

Wow, this is a startling revelation!

 

It’s called an Opinion/preference. Some types of girls like some types of guys, and vica verca.

 

The type of girl that seeks out the “Bad Boy” is in no way any less of a person then you or me. And they shouldn’t be judged upon the characteristics they look for in the opposite sex. And anything else your trying to enlighten us with is nothing short of blatantly obvious.

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Truth? What truth. That some types of girls like some types of guys better then others?

 

Wow, this is a startling revelation!

 

It’s called an Opinion/preference. Some types of girls like some types of guys, and vica verca.

 

The type of girl that seeks out the “Bad Boy” is in no way any less of a person then you or me. And they shouldn’t be judged upon the characteristics they look for in the opposite sex. And anything else your trying to enlighten us with is nothing short of blatantly obvious.

 

Well this thread was meant to point out why certain women are unlucky in love. The fact about bad boys is true, The same qualities that women love in men are repulsive to men when a woman exhibits the same traits. It may be a double standard but it works the other way as well.

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There are LOTS of reasons why girls fail in love. Sometimes what they are attracted to is the worst kind of person, and it turns into an abusive relationship.

 

Sometimes the girl is too mean…

 

Sometimes the guy is too mean…

 

Sometimes it just wasn’t meant to be…

 

And sometimes they just don’t have any… luck? I think that’s the word I’m looking for. Luck. Right place Right time scenario.

 

I think it’s proven that love is almost as hard to find as the fountain of youth. To some people it is constantly beyond their fingertips. If love was easy for everyone to find, there wouldn’t be a need for speed-dating, online websites like cupid, and things of that ilk.

 

Anyway, I believe that if you really want a specific type of person, go for it. I’m kinda one of those “If it makes you feel good, do it” people.

 

But, as for that chick that said there are no good males left, that kind of attitude is something I would define as “giving up”.

 

I’m not going to judge her for that type of attitude, I don’t know her enough to cast judgments. For all I know the woman you speak of is a creature of her environment. We all have those times in life were we are weaker then we once were, and lash out at a group for all our worldly problems.

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The hard truth is that many women are attracted to bad boys

this is just something that bitter men say to make themselves feel better. the same way that bitter women say that men are all a**holes. women dont like bad boys, but they do like someone who doesnt creep round them or try too hard, they dont like somebody who is within their complete control and emotionally dependent on them. the same way that men dont fall in love with women who try too hard to please them. its not a choice, its psychology. it just so happens especially with women who have many men falling for them, that the "bad boys" are the ones who seem to possess those more desirable qualities. there are many men, who are emotionally mature, independent and confident, who are NOT bad boys and are equally or more attractive.

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this is just something that bitter men say to make themselves feel better. the same way that bitter women say that men are all a**holes. women dont like bad boys, but they do like someone who doesnt creep round them or try too hard, they dont like somebody who is within their complete control and emotionally dependent on them. the same way that men dont fall in love with women who try too hard to please them. its not a choice, its psychology. it just so happens especially with women who have many men falling for them, that the "bad boys" are the ones who seem to possess those more desirable qualities. there are many men, who are emotionally mature, independent and confident, who are NOT bad boys and are equally or more attractive.

 

This is the truth.

 

Bad boys typically posess qualities that women are universally attracted to, as well as physically and/or emotionally unhealthy habits as well.

 

 

(Taken from a book about romance novels)

 

"Given that conflict is a requirement of all good fiction, especially

good genre fiction, and given that the conflict must arise out

of the primary focus of the story, it is understandable that in a

romance novel conflict must exist between the hero and heroine.

The hero in a romance is the most important challenge the

heroine must face and conquer. The hero is her real problem in the

book, not whatever trendy issue or daring adventure is also going

on in the subplot. In some way, shape, or form, in some manner

either real or perceived on the heroine's part, the hero must be a

source of emotional and, yes, sometimes physical risk. He must

present a genuine threat.

 

The hero must be part villain or else he won't be much of a

challenge for a strong woman. The heroine must put herself at risk

with him if the story is to achieve the level of excitement and the

particular sense of danger that only a classic romance can provide.

And the flat truth is that you don't get much of a challenge for

a heroine from a sensitive, understanding, right-thinking "modern"

man who is part therapist, part best friend, and thoroughly

tamed from the start. You don't get much of a challenge for her

from a neurotic wimp or a good-natured gentleman-saint who

never reveals a core of steel. And it is that core of steel at the center of a good romance hero that makes it all worth while."

 

That about sums it up.

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Of course by BBS I mean Bitter Bitch Syndrome. Anyway as part of my job I go to luncheons with big business people and sometimes these things fall on weekends. Today I had a luncheon and a woman was talking about how there are no good men left and I wondered why she thought this way. She was attractice successful and educated but when she opened her mouth more I figured out why. She had BBS. She started ranting about how horrible men are and how she thinks women have the right to cheat. She kept going on and on with the malebashing and she wonders why she can't find a man. It is because she is a manhater. A man can spot a misandrist from a mile away and it is obvious if a woman is one. Women that hate men just give off a vibe and every man knows what I am talking about. No matter how physichally beauitiful a woman is if she gives off this vibe I stay clear.

 

Yup. Negative energy from a woman or a man is VERY offputting and will repel people asap.

 

She needs to lighten up and realize that just because she may have been burned in the past, she has to take chances and try again...Not all men are awful. There are some great ones still out there!

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