Therr91919191919 Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 So one night my parents left and i was going to have a party with my girlfriend. Anywas she couldent go and the person she was coming with still came. She found out about it that night and broke up with me. Then like a few hours later me and that girl made out. Now its like a month later and im trying to get her back but she says she still loves me but she need to trust me agian. How do I get her to trust me agian?
josielane Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 Ok first of all, did you make out with this girl AFTER you had gotten the break up call from your girlfriend? Even still, that's a little bit soon. I understand her need to "trust" you again. The best thing you can do right now, is tell you that you understand you messed up, you 're truly sorry, and wish you could make it up to her. Then BACK OFF. Just be her friend. She's hurt, and rightfully so, it's going to take her time to make any kind of decision right now. Just be her friend, and try not to push her.
destination_unknown Posted March 6, 2006 Posted March 6, 2006 I think from your post you made out with the other girl AFTER your ex broke up with you. If so, i think that is a thing guys do (a ROSS thing maybe?) She had made a decision to split up with you so then gave up the right to have a say about what (or who ) you do. So you dont need to feel guilty about that. Yes it was a little soon but she had broken up with you and id say your emotions were all over the place, which is often a time we do things we dont really mean. Did she tell you *WHY* she wanted to break up? I certainly hope it wasnt just because you didnt stay home when she couldnt go to the party. If thats the case then you may be better off without her if she cant handle you having a life of your own. Why should you cancel your party just because she couldnt go?
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