unimoko Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 Guys---What has made you fall in love with a woman?
Lishy Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 Can I just add to this? I want to know what makes a player decide to settle down with one girl in particular! I wanted to start my own thread but I hope you do not mind me adding on here Uni!
newbby Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 i think its probably the girl that doesnt sleep with him too easily, which ties into my theory that women feel more vulnerable (and therefore more emotional) when they have slept with a guy before they know his feelings, or before his feelings have developed. or the woman that seems to know what she wants and wont take any sh*t, therefore wont sleep with him until he proves his worth.
brandon Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 i fell for the girl i'm currently in love with because she is by far the most caring and selfless person i've ever met. i fall in love with people who are different. girls at the bars, the flings, etc..you don't get to know them very well, and thus one's as good as the other... but when you find that special someone...you just never want to let go (even though sometimes maybe you should!)...
Curmudgeon Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 even though this is my second marriage. She was/is my friend whom I always admired and respected. She's totally honest, delightfully independent, centered, grounded and doesn't have a mean bone in her body. Add her intell9igence, inquiring mind and enthusiasm for life and the lady is a winner. She enhances me and my life and brings out the best in me. Most of all, I'm totally free to be myself with her.
hyakku Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 I can't say I've been in love yet but deep infatuation (maybe). I am what I would consider myself to be undecided, and like to switch focus from woman to woman, meaning one day hey I might like one woman, the next day I wont. However in the times that I felt an INSTANT attraction, like something just gravitated me towards her it was something strange, like it was just one of those feelings where you get something flying around in your stomach (Believe me it took be days to figure out that it was the butterflies from like 2nd grade), but you often find it was just the beginning. A girl I talk to now I often find I like more about her as time progresses (though we haven't been on the first date theres something that you have fun with the person). I think you have to be able to always enjoy yourself (that doesn't mean that you have to have a relationship with no arguments, because **** happens), but if you are always having fun why wouldn't you be happy. Love is a deep bond formed from times that you always enjoy with another person. The fun creates the attraction. The attraction creatses a bond and you begin to care about that person because your mind says, "Hey, I get pleasure from this item/organism. If harm comes to them my pleasure may be reduced. Thereofre I must protect this item/organism in order to continue to maximize my pleasure gained. (not sexual)". It seems selfish but I believe this is how it works, this is the first time I really thought about it in this manner, but I think this is true. I do have a long ways to learn though (Going through High School I admit is not the place where I can say I have found too much love).
Pyro Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Guys---What has made you fall in love with a woman? I was attracted to her, she had an awesome personality, meaning that she was intelligent, funny, respectful, supportive, independent to an extent, and absolutely loved PDF.
ThatOneGuy Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 The girl with the wits, will, and intellect to match my own. I suppose part of it was the challenge, she always kept me on my toes with a word or two that I always had the perfect response too. So, she had a strong mind… but… She had a good heart, as far as I was concerned. She had an unyielding caring for others, even complete strangers. And… I loved her. *Sigh* And yet, here I am. Oh well, more memories to push away like demons clawing at my backside.
Woggle Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 She has a passion for life that amazes me. She is also one of the most beautiful people on the inside and out. She also accepts me for me and doesn't ask me to change a thing. I feel free when I am with her.
jerbear Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 For me, an intelligent beautiful woman. I've always pursued the book and focued types. Guess it comes with age. She makes me be myself, share the inner most angels and demons. Gives me motivation to be the best and reason to chase to keep her.
Lucasarts Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 she looks stunning, is stunning, smells nice, and is the best arm/eye candy a guy could ask for plus shes very gentle, very nice, very personable and remarkably intelligent (socially AND educationally). She is essence makes me wonder what i did to get her and if i really do deserve her... but shes still mine, plus she has a great rack
bumbaclot Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 what is PDF? Portable Document Format (Adobe Acrobat)
konfuzd Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 Portable Document Format (Adobe Acrobat) Yeah, that's definately on my list of admirable qualities: a mutual love for PDF documents..... *sigh*
mrB2006 Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 Well, my answer.... I fell in love with... 1) Her faith (This really drew me to her...I was lacking it in my life). 2) Her personality (Such a sweet gal) 3) Her caring attitude 4) Her intelligence (She is very brainy) 5) Her athletic ability (she kicked my butt in racquetball all of the time) 6) Her chattiness (she talked about everything from sex to politics) 7) Her hair (nice long blond hair) 8) Her smile 9) Her, well, you know? She was very physically attractive. I will be honest, these qualities attracted me to my 'friend'.... I guess it was unrequited love to certain degree...Yet, who ever she ends up with will be a lucky fella. I wish her all the best. Thanks MrB *There were a few other girls in my life...but that was more 'puppy love' than anything else*
noclobber Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 I will fall for a girl if: 1) she is decent looking 2) she is shorter than me 3) she has a good smile 4) she is funny 5) she has a soft and gentle voice 6) she accepts me as i am 7) she likes me
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