Touche Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 No, you'll need more coverage for your tater or you'll be restricted. I think LM's cartoon girl's dress was too short maybe, so you better get some big 'ole grandma bloomers on that tater just to be safe.
hotgurl Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 That is the second time someone has complained about her avatar. They are less offensive than tudor blow job cartoon avatar or my bare butt angle one. Do you think her hubby is the one making the complaints under different user names to get her kicked off the shack because he is jealous of it?
blind_otter Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 That's a good point, HG. I thought it was a random LS stalker who picked LM to hate on (there are a herd of them out there, I think). But now that you mention it....
a4a Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 I don't know but I fear that the patriot act is being used on LS at this moment so I refrain from speaking of such matters. I do not want to be suspect of LS treason. McCarthy ....... that is all I will say..... McCarthy...........
Becoming Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 While I would love to see a tater thong (Oh, can we, please, please, a4a?), and have that cold tater shoved up some political a$$ right now, this is to LM: Sweetie, you are becoming stronger, and this confuses the weak ones who want to control us with inappropriate use of power. Your H's scared he's gonna lose you and probably doesn't know how to really let you know how much he loves you. That said, he doesn't seem committed to doing the work to learning appropriate ways of loving and caring for you. This takes time and effort. It's very hard work. Encourage him in it. You may have to spell out what you expect to see happen from him by {thus and such a reasonable date}. What would help you get over the affair? Spell that out so that you'll both be able to recognize when it's happened and be able to move past this. The only thing that will make him overcome his fear of change is his greater fear of losing you. He will resist change and want to go back to having you care too much without him having to do much of anything. When he starts playing the mind games, counter them. A book that helped me see the subtle power games my H played in order to avoid the responsibility of being an equal adult in our marriage was Wetzler's book, Living with the Passive Aggressive Man. I know your H gets active aggressive with his anger, but this book helped me more than anything else get in touch with recognizing the games and learning how to counter them with gentle power of my own. Once I started using the techniques in this book, my H had no where to run and hide from his irresponsibility. Blessings to you LM. You've been through a lot. Stay strong.
JadeStar Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Oh cool book becoming, about the passive agressive man. My counselor and I were just talking about that the other day. I'll have to check that out. Jade
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