steve0608 Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 Hi all. First timer at this so bear with me. Picture the scene, 42 and still in shape (if I may say so myself), married, 2 kids 10 and 5, house, stable job / financial position - so far so good - normal sex drive but apart from the conception of our our 2 children, my wife is generally not interested in sex and will do almost anything to avoid discussing the subject or any intimacy whatsoever. If it wasn't for the kids, we would have split up a long time ago. The frustrating thing is that I still find my wife very attractive. I don't think there is anyone else involved but with sex in your face at every turn these days - TV, Net etc I feel like I am going to burst, or cheat (I don't want to but...) Have tried night outs with no kids - but when we get home, she will rather sit up watching TV than go to bed at same time as me - maybe it is me, but I don't think so. Help
Neptune Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 Maybe in her mind: Sex = Pregnancy ??? And she doesn`t want any more kids? But, this is one of those topics that does get posted here on LS repeatedly. The answer is in communication. The two of you are going to have to talk this thing out and be honest with each other. If you are attracted to her it seems that is a real powerful catalyst for it working out.
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