tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Okay, maybe not terror, but at least some tension. The (ex?)gf finally contacted me via text message. We're planning on talking tonight after work. I'm really curious to see how tonight goes. Hopefully Lil' Tanbark doesn't influence me to do anything stupid.
hotgurl Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Okay, maybe not terror, but at least some tension. The (ex?)gf finally contacted me via text message. We're planning on talking tonight after work. I'm really curious to see how tonight goes. Hopefully Lil' Tanbark doesn't influence me to do anything stupid. Maybe you should no go over there with it loaded so to speak. good luck!
Author tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2006 Author Posted February 3, 2006 text message??? Yeah, but it's not as lame as it sounds. She's at work right now. She's a grocery store checker so it's easier for her to communicate via texting than having a phone conversation.
CaliGuy Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 TB813, stick to your guns. She crossed a boundary with you and you need to let her know it's not cool. If you work things out and she does it again, you can borrow the boots I used to boot the ex from my house.
Author tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2006 Author Posted February 3, 2006 TB813, stick to your guns. She crossed a boundary with you and you need to let her know it's not cool. If you work things out and she does it again, you can borrow the boots I used to boot the ex from my house. Much obliged.
kitten chick Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 well good luck tanbark. remember to use the big head when you talk to her and give us the update on monday.
CaliGuy Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Much obliged. Good luck man. I've read some of your post so you seem like a level-headed guy. I am sure you'll make the right decision for you.
Author tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2006 Author Posted February 3, 2006 Good luck man. I've read some of your post so you seem like a level-headed guy. I am sure you'll make the right decision for you. I'm glad at least one of us is sure. kitten chick: I'll definitely have an update on or before Monday. I'm also considering following B_O's and hotgurl's advice.
kitten chick Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I'm also considering following B_O's and hotgurl's advice. I thought it was excellent advice but I figured it was said twice by two brilliant women so I didn't need to repeat it. It's always wise to flog the dolphin to take sex and stress out of the equation when dealing with a SO.
Lonestar Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Don't you dare let her off for sitting on some guy's lap just because you want to get laid. I know sex is important babe, but don't overlook that she disrepected you. I hope it goes well tonight and she gives you a HUGE apology. Then you can f*ck her.
Author tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2006 Author Posted February 3, 2006 Don't you dare let her off for sitting on some guy's lap just because you want to get laid. I know sex is important babe, but don't overlook that she disrepected you. I hope it goes well tonight and she gives you a HUGE apology. Then you can f*ck her. Sound advice.
Walk Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Tan, Sorry to hear about your problems man. One suggestion though.. if you do decide to work it out. Make sure you set some firm ground rules for situations like that and how you expect her to respond, what's acceptable, etc. Good luck!
Author tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2006 Author Posted February 3, 2006 Tan, Sorry to hear about your problems man. One suggestion though.. if you do decide to work it out. Make sure you set some firm ground rules for situations like that and how you expect her to respond, what's acceptable, etc. Good luck! Yeah, definitely. Thanks.
Author tanbark813 Posted February 4, 2006 Author Posted February 4, 2006 Update: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81161/
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