BRISEIS Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Okay ya'll, I am in a jam. So let me give you the background story: me and this guy that goes to the same school as me (high school seniors) have finally had sex. Basically before that, we always had something for each other, but the thing is that when we are in school, i am with my friends and he is with his. We only speak at our convience but for some reason we cant leave each other alone. No one knows we have finally had sex, because before this all happened, I told him that we should have a no strings attached relationship and keep what we do to ourselves and that no one should know about us. And he agreed too. So anyway after sex, he called me and throughout school, he doesn't act different towards me but he is so weird to me. When I asked him what he wanted from me earlier, he said to be honest, I really don't know. But anyway, I know I said a no strings attached relationship, but sometimes, I feel myself growing emotionally attached and I don't want that to happen, but I want to still have sex with him. I want it to be where he knows I am not desperate. Also, yesterday when I was in class, this guy comes up to me in class and because our teacher wanted the class to go to the locker room, he and I walked together and then my best friend told me that when (the guy I had sex with) and his friend were walking, his friend said are you jealous that she is walking with him? But my best friend couldn't hear what he said, so I mean I wonder why his friend would ask him if he was jealous. I really need your comments and words of advice to help me realize that I can't allow myself to get emotionally attached.
CaliGuy Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 If you can't keep yourself from getting emotionally involved then stop having sex with him. They make "tools" for the sort of sitation you are in.
IrishCarBomb Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Not everyone can have sex without developing an emotional attachment. As much as some people would love the NSA sex deal.... for some people it is impossible. You probably aren't a NSA person. Plus... how do you honestly think that a guy getting laid is NOT going to be talked about in high school? People know about it. There is no doubt. If he didn't tell anyone (though he probably did), a perceptive person could probably see it in your interactions. I wouldn't worry though. You're in high school and essentially know nothing about anything. You'll probably look back on this and laugh.
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