jen4 Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 it's so cowardly. I say if you want it from someone else,move on. Give the other person some respect. It would hurt more to find out they'd been cheated on than to end the relationship. I have been cheated on. I am only able to give 100 % of myself to 1 MAN. Do I sound bitter?
Devildog Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Never cheated. Had a number of opportunities to. But never did. My XW couldn't be so morally upstanding though.
kitten chick Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I wasn't really interested in hearing from the cheaters, I've heard from plenty of them already. I'm trying to restore my faith in people and trying to believe that there are some decent people out there.
Pyro Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I myself have never cheated. Never had the desire to. Its just not right. If you are unhappy with your SO, then brake it off. I've been cheated on before. Not too good of a feeling. I couldn't put anyone that I care for deeply through that kind of pain and torture.
kitten chick Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 If you are unhappy with your SO, then brake it off. Was that a general statement or directed at me?
Becoming Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Wow, powerful words. What an awesome view to live by! I've never heard it put quite so well. Why, thank you. Seriously, though. The whole social fabric is made up of promises. When they're not kept, the fabric becomes torn or so holey it can't comfort anyone anymore. It seems to me that that's where we are in society these days. Thanks, kitten, for hosting this opportunity for us to see there're still some patches of integrity left in this world.
lilmoma1973 Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Never cheated on anyone ever!! I have always been the one cheated on thoughout my life..When i am in a relationship i am committed to them 100 percent!! My h cheated on me yrs ago and my heart can forgive but it never forgets...
Pyro Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Was that a general statement or directed at me? General statement only.
kitten chick Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Thanks, kitten, for hosting this opportunity for us to see there're still some patches of integrity left in this world. You're welcome Becoming. I figured you deserved it for starting the wandering uterus thread yesterday. I don't think it's working for me. I still have no faith in people. Hopefully it will work for someone else.
Rickymoemoe Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Hey add me to the non-cheater club! Courrse it would be hard form me since I'm charter member of the Virgin Club too!
l2hvn Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 Even though I have been cheated on twice from the past, I have never cheated, and never will. I am a firm believer of karma. What goes around comes around. And it usually bites you in the ass twice as hard when you least expect it. I just don't get why people have the urge to stray. Why can't they just break it off with the current partner and start clean with the new partner. Saves a lot of trouble and heartache (and karma). People are just selfish sometimes.
RainyDayWoman Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I am a firm believer of karma. What goes around comes around. And it usually bites you in the ass twice as hard when you least expect it. and sometimes, you learn and just move on. cheaters are still human, even though they don't seem like it when you've been cheated on. people who are cheated on do believe it is the worst thing in the world, but the one who is cheated on isn't always innocent in the relationship (and not necessarily in regard to cheating, i mean other things that cause irreversible problems in relationships.) it is nice, though, to see there are so many people who never cheated. sadly, i'm actually surprised there are this many who haven't...
morrigan Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I've been lucky. I've never cheated on anyone and as far as I know I've never been cheated on. Not that I haven't acted like a jack@ss in other ways.
RainyDayWoman Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I've been lucky. I've never cheated on anyone and as far as I know I've never been cheated on. Not that I haven't acted like a jack@ss in other ways. there's nothing like an honest answer.
TheSwordfish Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I have never cheated! I am one of those people with pinciples that I will not easily let go. It takes a whole lot of time to get me in a situations where I will even try and kiss someone. The fact that I don't drink alcohol (its a harddrug in my opinion) might have helped me quite a bit. I don't like cheating. I think somewhere along the way evolution gave us brains. Lets just use them! Drinking to much makes people act like primitive idiots. Controlling primitive urges is something that can easily be done when you use your common sense.
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 Why, thank you. Seriously, though. The whole social fabric is made up of promises. When they're not kept, the fabric becomes torn or so holey it can't comfort anyone anymore. It seems to me that that's where we are in society these days. Thanks, kitten, for hosting this opportunity for us to see there're still some patches of integrity left in this world. I wish more people were like you, Becoming. The world would be a much better place. (and I'd have some trust left)
7on Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 I'll never cheat. First date is tomorrow. I'm nervous. My dad cheated on my mom though - her pain will remind me to never cheat.
kitten chick Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 I'm excited for you 7on I know you'll do great tomorrow. You're such a sweet and funny guy.
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 I'll never cheat. First date is tomorrow. I'm nervous. My dad cheated on my mom though - her pain will remind me to never cheat. You're a very compassionate guy. And very mature for learning from your dad's mistakes -- some guys just repeat them. Good luck on the date! We expect a full report!
Becky Jean Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 I have thought about it, but never done it. I take my vows very seriously.
DacaInaru Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 I have never cheated on anyone i've been with ever.. its not my style.. i tend to be loyal and when I'm no longer feeling "it" for the person.. I leave.. why cheat.. just move on..
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