Walk Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Okay, it's official! I have seriously lost my mind. I'm really crazy. I lost my mind and I don't think I want it back. It was defective anyway. I wouldn't mind a male perspective on a situation though. Since I'm crazy. But if you bought your gf a pre-paid phone and she made a joke about the two-way feature going off all the time (cause we kept accidently hitting it), how would you react? The joke was followed by a kiss and a hug (just because) and the statement that she did like the phones. Would you get mad? Feel that the gift was insulted. That you were ridiculed? What would your response be? How would others take it if their bf bought them a pre-paid phone and told you he was going to cancel the cell plan they currently had. (2 yr relationship) And followed it with the words, this way you'll still have a phone if we break up. Really... how would you take that? I didn't even flip, nothing. I was pretty proud of myself. I just shrugged it off, went to class. I come home and he's gone. He decided he'd rather be at work then hang out with me, but he couldn't leave me a note or anything to say he were he went. I now have two phones and he can't tell me he's taking off. I thought that was rude. But the world is so weird I don't know anymore. He's telling me I'm unappreciative, selfish, and I ridiculed him by making the joke about the gift that he worked hard for and paid a lot of money for. It's okay for him to ridicule and make jabs at me, cause that's him.... but he said it's not okay for me to do it, because that's not me. He really said this. Can you believe it? He said it was totally different. whoa. I'm speechless. He left his new fangled pre-paid on the table for me to find. Wouldn't talk to me except to send me text messages about how he gives so much, and what do I do for him? I text him back and ask what I'm supposed to do when he refuses to have sex with me even when I throw myself at him, how he won't let me pay any of the bills, refuses to discuss my getting a job, won't accept any gifts from me, etc. I really thought I framed the questions as politely as possible and as non-negatively as I could. Much more positive then I wrote here. He calls several hours later, leaves a message (I didn't want to answer the call, *grimace*) Says he doesn't want to be an azz, but he would appreciate it if I'd stop texting him about what an azz he is when his truck broke down and he's stuck on the side of the road and doesn't know when his company will get someone out to fix it so he can get back to doing his job. And how he's been up since yesterday morning, and due to his job, hasn't been able to get even an hours sleep. Ah ha. I'm the azz. So...... I'm going on a road trip. Not to see him. Wonder where I can go? Any suggestions? I live in MI. Anywhere cool to go? I've got about $30 though, so it can't be expensive. I'm thinking of painted rock, or whatever that's called. Maybe Adirondacks. I think that's only about 12 hours away...
Becoming Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 You go, Walk! http://www.hotwire.com has last-minute deals that are usually cheap if you need a nice place to stay, but you have to get reserve before 5 or 6:00, I think. $30 ain't much. You got a credit card? How're classes going? I'm not even gonna talk about that man of yours. You know I think he's not good enough for you, hurting our Walk like he does! Good to see ya back.
Author Walk Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 You go, Walk! http://www.hotwire.com has last-minute deals that are usually cheap if you need a nice place to stay, but you have to get reserve before 5 or 6:00, I think. $30 ain't much. You got a credit card? How're classes going? I'm not even gonna talk about that man of yours. You know I think he's not good enough for you, hurting our Walk like he does! Good to see ya back. Ha ha ha.. no credit card. Debit/visa card. Wonder if I can get one in a day? If I wasn't such a good person, I would get one in my bf's name and rack the bills up. I know too much. But the world is lucky. I am a good person, and won't. Never again gonna take shyt from anyone. Never. I'm done! I'm a LCPL in the United States Marine Corps. I've seen shyt you've never thought of. Like this one time at chow... ha ha ha.. I'm just kidding. I never saw anything. I wanna go party. Cut lose and flirt with as many guys as possible. I got a guy in WI who's beggin' me to come see him. I won't. But damn.... There's a life out there I'm not living! And I'm going to go see what it's all about.
noclobber Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 There's a life out there I'm not living! And I'm going to go see what it's all about. Yup! that's exactly what you got to do Forget your man and all your problems and go out... have fun... unwind... decompress.... whatever PS: your avatar is awesome
whichwayisup Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 He's being a turd. GO and live some life while it's happening. You're not crazy...I think your bf is though!
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