BUTAFLY Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 topic the a husband/W & OW discussed their OW in their relationship. very interesting perspective on H view of things 9-10 am est
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 the H admits he has real feelings for ow, even asked the wife if she could move in, or if they could share. what he says is keeping is his love for his wife and kids and he will miss them.
newbby Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 it is still just one story butafly.... but, go on, what else did he say?
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 Dr. phil asked the knowing wife that has been fighting to keep her H. "why are you waiting for H to decide the rest of your life?" good question
alfagrl Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 he has known the OW for 13yrs. wasnt clear on how long they have been seeing eachother. Yes, it is just another story but what interested me was it being about what is going on in the MM head. I mostly get stroies from the OW or scorned W . I really want to know what the MM is thinking.
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 how long had the affair been happening for? I think he said 12 or 13 yrs and the wife waited for him all that time to chose. The wife said that eventhough she knew her H slept with the OW their sex life got much better. and of course just like 99% of the sorries He decides to stay at home.
newbby Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 so how long had the wife known of the a, and how did she find out?
Barby Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Wow his words about the "OW" NOT being worth leaving his wife and kids for is really powerful! Especially since he'd known the "OW" so long! If that wouldn't open some eyes I don't know what would! The W told him to leave but even then he knew where he really wanted to be...what do ya wanna bet the "OW" wouldn't let go?! Anyway this was a good show!
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 so how long had the wife known of the a, and how did she find out? the W and kids have known for years. He actually told his wife because he felt he wanted to be open and honest and if she knew about it, it wasnt really cheating, just trying to make everyone happy. the OW said the MM told her the wife was accepting and they soon will be divorcing. the wife enterupped and said that was never true, she was never accepting and in fact the sex got better. It goes to show you can never trust a cheating MM.
Barby Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 the W and kids have known for years. He actually told his wife because he felt he wanted to be open and honest and if she knew about it, it wasnt really cheating, just trying to make everyone happy. the OW said the MM told her the wife was accepting and they soon will be divorcing. the wife enterupped and said that was never true, she was never accepting and in fact the sex got better. It goes to show you can never trust a cheating MM. Exactly! Well said!
newbby Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 ...what do ya wanna bet the "OW" wouldn't let go?! well from what butafly was saying, neither of them let go. he asked his wife if she could move in with them. or maybe he went on dr phil because he wanted a way to get rid of the ow!
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