jennifer1983 Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 This is going to be a LONG one. Please bare with me: Well aside from the last few painful days of NC with my ex bf I was doing pretty good. Until last night. I was painting the inside of my house, and my phone rang, but I have all my contacts set up with specific ringers so instead of looking at the caller id last night I just answered the phone. The number was blocked but I figured it was someone from my work. It turned out to be my exes sister. Well, usually when my ex won't return his sisters or moms calls she does call me. At first she just asked me if I talked to him because hes not returning anyones calls. I told her well we broke up so I dont know where hes at. She started telling me they figured something was up since he wasnt talking much lately and wasnt answering the phone so they all figured something happened between me and him. I mean his sister is really nice and I love his family and I know they want us together. She asked what happened and at first I didnt go into a great amount of detail but then she started telling me that he really does love me. She said how he never was so much in love with his wife as he was me. She was practically begging me to talk to him telling me how she knew things would be different. Then her other phone rang and she answered and lo and behold it was my ex. She was like well I will talk to you later. I thought it was all a little strange and was just going to overlook it all. Well then, here she calls back again. She tells me this time that she talked to him and he said he was willing to work on his issues if I work on mine. And to make sure she told me that he missed me and loved me. That he really did want to work things out and wanted her to tell him by how I acted if she thought I would work things out with him. She said hes really not good with expressing emotions and that he really does love me. She said that we just need to talk and that she knows me and him will get back together. Then her phone died so once again I let things go. About twenty minutes later I hear my exes ring tone. I started to not answer but I don't know I just picked it up I guess as habit. Well he had this attitude about him like he was pissed off the whole time. He said he loved me but we both need to work on things. We get into an argument about everything nothing in general and he tells me he is starting to not care about anyone and that he didnt really feel like talking to anybody tonight. I was like WTF, what is his deal. I mean I know he is stressed out because he lost his job and has child support and a house payment to make let alone the rest of his bills. But if he didnt feel like talking to anybody why did he call? If he was just going to sit there and argue with me and have an attitude then why call? I sat there and told his sister that I have tried all I know how to try with him and work things out but he is so emotionally distant and cold how could anybody get close to him. Then when I get so upset at how hes acting he tells me that he loves me I said well then if you love me why are you doing this? So I told him point blank that if he is going to get his attitude with me and act like he doesnt care then there is no need to call me back and we got off the phone. So now I am sitting here analyzing, wondering, what in the heck was that?
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