Mary3 Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 I know we talked alot about nice guys and arrogant guys but what about bad girls ? I am what some might call a *spicy* girl. I like porn ( soft ) I like making love alot I like to flirt I dress sexy but not drop dead naughty I am single I do date alot I have been in comitted relationships long term before... I do like being in love and I do initiate alot of intimacy when I am seeing someone. Does that make me a bad girl ?
witabix Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Doesn't sound bad to me. Do you feel like a bad girl? I do sometimes, but there is never one around when I need one! My definition of a bad (not nice) girl :- Cheats. Lies. Uses. Blackmails (emotionally) A bad (nice) girl :- Can't wait to try out her latest 'ideas' Teases, but gives in eventually. Cheeky. Adventurous (in life). Goes out wearing a long skirt, but underneath is a red hot ensemble of lingerie, kept just for her SO. Oh boy, gotta rest now!
Author Mary3 Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 I'm the second one I don't cheat , lie or steal . Thats for the criminals hehe. Well maybe white lies like " Do you think I look fat in this dress ? " U" Um ...no you look great in that dress ". lol
JayKay Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 You're bad if you think you're bad. I base 'bad' and 'good' judgements on how people treat others, not on whether or not they like porn.
morrigan Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 I think of a bad girl/boy as someone who enjoys manipulating many people in their lives. Short term they seem to be exciting, but their focus is always about themselves. Some of them are classic narcissists, some are just wannabes bitter against a whole gender for what a parent or a former partner(s) did to them. The ones I've known tend to categorize people and keep their various lives separate. It's not about being open minded about sex, it's actually a a repressive type. They can have a lot of relationships and be into all kinds of sex but there's always a lack of intimacy.
SmoochieFace Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 I don't find *bad* girls interesting. Not my type.
Lights Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 I know we talked alot about nice guys and arrogant guys but what about bad girls ? I am what some might call a *spicy* girl. I like porn ( soft ) I like making love alot I like to flirt I dress sexy but not drop dead naughty I am single I do date alot I have been in comitted relationships long term before... I do like being in love and I do initiate alot of intimacy when I am seeing someone. Does that make me a bad girl ? I say don't worry about it. I've heard of all the "nice" and/vs/whatever "bad" stuff that people talk about (I've not experienced any of it, so I can only guess how much truth there is to any of it), and personally I think too many people are spending WAY too much time wondering about how they compare to what are essentially media stereotypes that have been ingrained long enough for people not to even think of them as stereotypes. I think a lot of people would be a lot more liberated within themselves if they realized that they themselves are people and not merely collections of projectable stereotypical images. If you like to flirt and make love and all the rest, all it means is that you'll probably like a guy who likes it too! Not that it makes you good or bad. Evil exists, malice exists, criminality exists, and so on. My personal view on that is I like not to be anywhere near people whose natures partake too much of them.
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