grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 I think men who are scared of women gain a woman's interest. Just act like you are scared to be around her. There are a few women around here that I am legitimately afraid to to talk to. I've always been in occupations where I have limited contact with people so I'm use to not being so sociable. I'm not wired that way. I am very quiet and shy. I can be talkative in a room filled with men but when the women come along forget it. I prefer to have contact with women in writing than verbally. I don't feel comfortable when I'm alone with a woman. I usually prefer double dating so the pressure is taken off my end. I think NC is easier for shy people.
Author grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 I think the next girlfriend I prefer is someone whom I can only have contact with through writing or e-mail. I don't want a physical relationship. Just a written correspondence back and forth.
hyakku Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 I think men who are scared of women gain a woman's interest. Just act like you are scared to be around her. There are a few women around here that I am legitimately afraid to to talk to. I've always been in occupations where I have limited contact with people so I'm use to not being so sociable. I'm not wired that way. I am very quiet and shy. I can be talkative in a room filled with men but when the women come along forget it. I prefer to have contact with women in writing than verbally. I don't feel comfortable when I'm alone with a woman. I usually prefer double dating so the pressure is taken off my end. I think NC is easier for shy people. What? Are you saying that you should be afraid of a woman to gain her attention? ....I'm sorry not to offend you but that sounded like one of the most pathetic things I have ever heard. Its alright to be shy or afraid, but you are saying to DELIBERATELY act this way, and NOT try to change it like most normal guys do? Jesus....what is this world coming too?
whichwayisup Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 I think the next girlfriend I prefer is someone whom I can only have contact with through writing or e-mail. I don't want a physical relationship. Just a written correspondence back and forth. Grace, it's more than that...Are you afraid of being hurt? Or are you afraid of a woman actually falling inlove with you... You sound like you need some self confidence and if hooking up with someone online can help you gain that confidence, then I say go for it. BUT, if you think that you can maintain a "relationship" online and never meet, that is going to be difficult. In time, she will want to meet you, and hopefully by then you'll feel confident enough to meet face to face. Can I ask? You say you're shy, but what is the real fear of talking and getting to know women. What is it that scares you most?
jerbear Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 What? Are you saying that you should be afraid of a woman to gain her attention? ....I'm sorry not to offend you but that sounded like one of the most pathetic things I have ever heard. Its alright to be shy or afraid, but you are saying to DELIBERATELY act this way, and NOT try to change it like most normal guys do? Jesus....what is this world coming too? I believe hyakku got it and I agreed twice already. This post and another, I think it is time to go to sleep!!
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