Xillr8ng Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 i havent read all of this but... whenever i get dumped, i try to remember the men ive dumped and the ones i lost most respect for/got most annoyed with afterwards. then i try to do the opposite of what they did. when i dump somebody, i always try to remember when i have been dumped and which was the kindest way (usually the bluntest), and do that. Does anyone else feel this way?
Author Lishy Posted February 6, 2006 Author Posted February 6, 2006 I have to say that if my ex started paying my bills wothout me even asking I would think he was a doormat! SOrry if that is harsh but it is true. If she does not want you then paying her bills will not change a thing except for your bank balance! But my advice stays the same, you do what is right for YOU!
Xillr8ng Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 Our attornies agreed a few weeks ago that I would keep the bank account open and continue to pay car and health insurance and cell phone.I had never stopped doing these things for 4 months after she left..by continuing this I avoid TEMP allimony...The "bills" that I am reffering to that I just recently paying out of niceness is the mechanic's bill to keep her car running.But you are right she probably doesnt give two catbox crunchies that I am doing this.
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