Super89Rex Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Well, Its been about 3/4 days since I had my date with that girl I was seeing. I gave her a call last night around 8 and there was no answer, so I just sent her a text message saying I tried calling and cracked a joke about how shes always sleeping when I called.. She called back around 9 and we talked for a bit, she was on her cell phone. I then suggested that she give me a call when she got home, she said she would so we hang up. Now, I was planning on asking her on our second date; 10pm, 10:30, 11pm rolls around and no call. So I just sent her another text saying if she plans on calling to call my cellphone because people were sleeping at my house. Still no call or anything.. I know this sounds a little as if I am overanalyzing the situation and if I am please tell me.. My point being is that I hate it when people say they are going to do things and don’t follow through, I mean; I was looking forward to her call. Now what should I do? Should I wait like another 3 or 4 days when its too late to call and ask for another date??? (I wanted to get a date for this weekend) Or should I call either tonight or Thursday? My main priority is to not seem needy or clingy, so what do you guys think I should do? Thanks a bunch.
barfool Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 It is entirely possible that she got home really late and didn't want to wake you. Since you contacted her so much in that one day I think you need to give her a few days to make the next contact.
Author Super89Rex Posted February 1, 2006 Author Posted February 1, 2006 So, about Thursday night I'm thinking ? To call back that is..
Blackout923 Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 I think you should stop calling her and let her call you. You don't want to seem like your desperate by calling & txting so much. I would at the very least wait 1 day and see if she contacts you before you call or txt again. You don't want her to think your just sitting there by your cellphone waiting for it to ring. Go live life, do your thing whatever it is. Don't let the dating game take over your life. If she is interested in you she will contact you esp. after you tried to contact her.
gfto Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Why didn't you just ask her out when you had her on the phone?! This early in the game, the only time you should be on the phone with her is to ask her for a date! No chit-chat. Save that for the date. I wouldn't be sending text messages either. It's anti-challenge. Slow down. You've only had lunch with this girl. The next time you call her, ask her for the date (with a specific time and place in mind), then get off the phone.
Author Super89Rex Posted February 2, 2006 Author Posted February 2, 2006 You know, I've been hitting myself in the head now that I think about it; I should have just cut to the chase and asked her.. Im calling tonight, if she answers I'm going to just ask her.. Thanks for the replies guys. Matt
Recommended Posts