ladydivine Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Hey Im new here and I have a bit of a problem. I'm usually really good at figuring out men- in fact, Ive always known exactly what my bf's were thinking and what they were gonna do next. However, I started dating this guy from France and he's completely different and doesnt conform to the rules of dating. For instance, he told me that French girls will call a guy up and will even ask guys out. I told him that if he wants to see me that he would have to do all that leg work because if he likes me he would want to call me up n ask me out etc. Anyway, Ive been following these rules to a T. He has really worked for my affection and asked me to be his Girlfriend. I was really happy and things got a bit intimate- to cut a long story short- he couldnt get it up. Now - to be honest, I didnt care. I really like him. Hes shy and was probably nervous but he was really quiet and a bit sad looking for the rest of the night. Even as I cuddled him, kissed him and told him it didnt matter. He left in a bit of a hurry the next day and told me he'd "call me". He said it with the same confusing tone as he has said and done evrything else so maybe he was being sincere and really is still into me. Im gonna see him on fri- what should I say and do to show him I want to be with him? Thanx- sorry for the length
Outcast Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 He was probably just nervous and is maybe embarrassed so look real happy to see him and give him a big hug or kiss or greet him however you always greeted him. Don't be uncomfortable but don't bring it up, either.
hyakku Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Heh I was coming into this thread thinking you were having an odor problem!!! (its a JOKE). First, has he had sex with european women and not had a problem? Maybe your mannerisms are truly shocking and now that he's working for it maybe he's found something valuable (not saying that you're the end all be all for him, maybe just a strange change. Not that you aren't valuable ), and now he's nervous?
whichwayisup Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Yup, I agree with Outcast, he was nervous and then he starting thinking... The thinking made some problems happen down south...Sadly for him. BUT, when you see him, bring him some flowers. (IT doesn't always have to be the man bringing a woman flowers...) Don't mention a word about "it" and if he brings it up just kiss him and say it's okay.
Gold Pile Posted February 2, 2006 Posted February 2, 2006 If he knows about your past BF's. Tell him it's happened to some of them too. "It's no big deal it will happen"
Author ladydivine Posted February 3, 2006 Author Posted February 3, 2006 Thanx for that guys. Everything is fine now and it turns out that it was a one off- he was just nervous. Nothing more has been said about it and he seems quite chuffed with his last nights efforts- lucky for me. lol.
ReluctantRomeo Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 However, I started dating this guy from France and he's completely different and doesnt conform to the rules of dating. Chérie, we *invented* the rules of dating Im gonna see him on fri- what should I say and do to show him I want to be with him? Impress him with some french: "Veux-tu caresser ma chatte?"
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