swissair Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 I think LS is amazing. So much great advice and so many great people. My relationship of 3.5 months ended on Sunday. I've been crying and moping around feeling like a victim. How could you do this to me -- lead me on and give me false hope for an entire month? I feel like it was all lies and that I got used. The real question is, how could I **LET** you do this to me. I should have stood up for myself a month ago and said nobody treats me like this, either explain yourself, or it's over! I let someone else control my feelings for an entire month while I waited for them to decided what was best for themselves. How stupid of me! I know the book "He's just Not that Into You" is for chicks, but it's been amazingly helpful for me too. I read through this forum and see questions like why doesn't he call, why doesn't he want to have sex, why does he cheat, why does he not follow through with his promises -- and the single answer is he's just not that into you. But we sit and make excuses till we are BLUE! And the funny thing is, I thought I had a spine. This is only my third relationship, but I'm far more mature and able to stand up for myself now than compared to my first. But Love makes me give people the benefit of doubt over and over and over! So, this is the new me. The me that doesn't take crap from anyone. The me that is going to stand up whenever I feel hurt. Thanks again to everyone who posts here. You are amazing. -Trevor
pandnh4 Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 what an inspiring post, and welcome to ls... thanx for the high-spirited words and good luck to you and your heart... this is really a great community for support and hope...
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