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If someone loves you and is sexually attracted to you but not in love with you. Is it possible for them to fall in love with you or realize they are in love with you??? Or is love a set thing that can not be created nor destroyed???

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yes....

that happened with me and my ex...there was a time when I only loved him and I had to go through some decisions in my life weather to let him go, or continue our struggles toghether...so I distanced myself for about two weeks. No contact or seeing him. Realizing....I was in love with him. This was about 2 years in our relationship. We lasted for 3 more years... =)

 

Either party must have gone through a major wake up call to realize what they have. It's true what the saying is..."you don't realize what you have till it's gone". Unfortunate but true. Some people are lucky and realize it just in time.

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Love is so strange. I mean, someone you hate can even become somone you love.

 

Somtiems there is instant attraction between two people, but in many cases this will just fade aqay, or be swept away by rational factors later on.

 

Love can grow. If someones loves you and thinks you are attractive you might have a good chance to fall in love later on. I mean, when are you in love?

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Love can grow. If someones loves you and thinks you are attractive you might have a good chance to fall in love later on. I mean, when are you in love?

 

Thanks for the hope. Sometimes hope is helpful in the moving-on process. I think his ex stood in the way of us becoming a couple.

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