thegamedale Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 There is this girl who i have never talked to personally, who i really like. However, she has been out with all the "Good looking" guys who always get the best girls. Im not surprised because she is hot. I am not that much of a looker myself, but how do i get her to be interested in me? In my previous experience, looks are the most important, as a girl will then only look at you twice. Is this true? How do i go about it? Thanks
notmakingsense Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Take a look at http://www.doubleyourdating.com and sign up for the free e-letter and maybe get the inexpensive e-book download. (No, I don't work for them) I really don't buy in to all these "how to get chicks" methods, but I like this site because it focuses on how humor, confidence, and simply being a man work to attract romantic interest. Looks are only one factor, and they aren't even the most important (unless the woman is immature). Men with strengths in personality will often be just as successful (or even more successful) as those with strengths in looks alone.
Author thegamedale Posted January 31, 2006 Author Posted January 31, 2006 You dont happen to have that ebook do you? Can you send it to my email address? LOL Thanks
notmakingsense Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Sorry, but I downloaded it about 2 years ago, and a computer crash has since wiped it out.... as I recall, it was pretty cheap though....
Art_Critic Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 I have always dated women that most would consider out of my league. My success in bridging that gap is my self confidence and humor. ALL women love a guy that is funny and self confident.. and it opens doors into womens lives. So if you have self confidence and humor with a good personality then there are no group definitions like " out of your league " In fact it can work in reverse and they believe that they are dating out of their league.. Remember that love is blind.
Lucasarts Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Sorry, but I downloaded it about 2 years ago, and a computer crash has since wiped it out.... as I recall, it was pretty cheap though.... there is a reason why its so cheap *ahem* anyways, i wouldnt bother pursuing this girl atm unless the opportunity presents itself are you in school or something? i would offer more advice but i dont know how old you are.
barfool Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Looks are only one factor, and they aren't even the most important (unless the woman is immature). Men with strengths in personality will often be just as successful (or even more successful) as those with strengths in looks alone. This is very true. When I was in high school it was all about looks. Seven years down the road and now looks are not a huge concern. If a guy comes up and talks to me who is self-confident, interesting and funny then that is all I need to start an attraction. But I suppose not looking like a puddle of vomit helps too. A guy needs to appear well kempt so that you know he takes care of himself. If she only dates "good looking" guys only for that reason then she is not worth pursuing.
Yamaha Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 She is only out of your league if you feel that she is above you. Confidence ( like the others have stated ) is the key to tearing down the "above you" wall. If she blows you off without even knowing you then she is immature. Be bold when pursuing women and you should be OK.
Toronto Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Dude, don't give up before you even try. Go in with all of the confidence that everyone is suggesting. Speak with her, see how it feels. If a natural opening presents itself, or if you are sly enough to create one, invite her for a drink or something. If she turns out to be shallow then she wasn't worth it but you'll be better off anyways for the experience.
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