BUTAFLY Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 I want to be a player. I am tired of wearing my heart on my sleve and getting hurt. NO feelings = NO pain and I can still get pleasure; sign me up! Players out their; what do I need to know...I'm ready to learn
cal gal Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Ha ha ha you and me both honey! tell me how to do it as well because i guess i could use some lessons in dating after a long dry spell!
Lucasarts Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 learn to not ask and just do learn to understand the opposite sex enough, which means learning to make friends first with the opposite sex. Reading dating guides or anything like that is utter and stupid trash. lie alot learn to smooth talk and charm the crowd enhance your worst and best qualities; basically completely change who you are as a person. learn to not call someone back theres more but basically become a complete dick
witabix Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 1. Don't give a rats arse for anyone elses feelings. 2. Me, its all about me, me, me. 3. Lie, a lot, all the time. 4. Leave your self respect at the door. 5. View women as objects, for your sole pleasure. 6. Say I love you to every woman you meet. 7. Hang around cemeteries, most women look good in black, and there is a plentiful supply of grieving widows. 8. Buy a medallion. 9. Grow your chest hair. 10. Buy a car with a long bonnet(Hood), wink wink. 11. Learn to say "Baby" a lot. As in "Do you want fries with that baby?" 12. Refuse to grow old, or even grow up. 13. Get a time machine and go back to prehistory, with a aluminium basball bat, start an arms race, why not! Or alternatively, continue to wear that heart on your sleeve and learn to take the beatings that are handed out to you, become a better and stronger man, develop a sense of humour over your failures. Realise that it is the ones who hurt a good man that are the losers.
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 1, 2006 Author Posted February 1, 2006 Ok mr sarcasim aka witabix, I am female so most of those things I can no use. but i'll take 1,2,3,&5 maybe even 11. thanx baby
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Treat people like they are disposable toys. It gets old after a while though. Take it from somebody who has been there.
littlekitty Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Women aren't meant to be players. It's not in our make-up, not in our genes. We are too emotional (even when we think we're being tough ) to do the playa thing. Some women work it with success. But you want to know why? Because they are dead inside. They have no self esteem so they are happy to tout themselves around men. Surely you'd rather be a loving, emotional, proud, confident woman? Unless you have some serious issues, which it doesn't sound like, then the only person that will come out of this worse off is you. The only person you'll hurt is you!! Your emotions will get the better of you, and you'll regret it no doubt.
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Women aren't meant to be players. It's not in our make-up, not in our genes. We are too emotional (even when we think we're being tough ) to do the playa thing. Some women work it with success. But you want to know why? Because they are dead inside. They have no self esteem so they are happy to tout themselves around men. Surely you'd rather be a loving, emotional, proud, confident woman? Unless you have some serious issues, which it doesn't sound like, then the only person that will come out of this worse off is you. The only person you'll hurt is you!! Your emotions will get the better of you, and you'll regret it no doubt. Women can be just as good players as men. I have seen them in action and the only weakness they have as getting bested by a better player which is a weakness males have as well. I bested a female player because she met her match but before me she did it very well.
littlekitty Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Women can be just as good players as men. I have seen them in action and the only weakness they have as getting bested by a better player which is a weakness males have as well. I bested a female player because she met her match but before me she did it very well. I'm sure some women can, but don't you think they have to totally close off their emotions to do it well...? I don't know. I've seen close friends do it, and only ever come out worse off, feeling bad about themselves. How did you friend deal with the emotional side of things?
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 I'm sure some women can, but don't you think they have to totally close off their emotions to do it well...? I don't know. I've seen close friends do it, and only ever come out worse off, feeling bad about themselves. How did you friend deal with the emotional side of things? Players of both genders enjoy using others because it makes them feel powerful. When the tables are turned on them and they get used themselves it throws them for a loop because that power is taken away. That is what happened to this woman. I wouldn't call her a friend because she is a militant feminist manhater who plays men as some sort of gender war. She thought she was playing me but I played her and she couldn't take it. I don't think this is specific to one gender though. Men are much more emotionally complex than we get credit for but society conditions us not to show it. Women would be surprised by what they found if they scanned the average man's brain.
lindya Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 I want to be a player. I am tired of wearing my heart on my sleve and getting hurt. NO feelings = NO pain and I can still get pleasure; sign me up! Players out their; what do I need to know...I'm ready to learn I'm not a player, but from what I've witnessed it just requires you to do 2 things. 1. Lower your standards drastically 2. Select partners who are insecure and/or have a low intelligence level.
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 1, 2006 Author Posted February 1, 2006 Men are much more emotionally complex than we get credit for but society conditions us not to show it. Women would be surprised by what they found if they scanned the average man'sbrain[/i]. men are the most complex creatures to me. I hear your sentament alot, men saying they are emotional, caring but do the complete opposite so it just makes them look like liers. Woggle take us on the journey through the adverage mans mind. What on god green earth are you men thinking? Do most of you have feelings (not ego)actual feelings? are they capable of getting hurt? are men capable of reconizing others peoples feelings?
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 men are the most complex creatures to me. I hear your sentament alot, men saying they are emotional, caring but do the complete opposite so it just makes them look like liers. Woggle take us on the journey through the adverage mans mind. What on god green earth are you men thinking? Do most of you have feelings (not ego)actual feelings? are they capable of getting hurt? are men capable of reconizing others peoples feelings? Yes but society wants us to be stoic and manly so we hold a lot in. There is much more going on inside our heads than what we say.
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 1, 2006 Author Posted February 1, 2006 Yes but society wants us to be stoic and manly so we hold a lot in. There is much more going on inside our heads than what we say. like what. When you see a women do you immediatley want to bang her or do you actually want to get to know her? or does the sex come first, then depending on how that goes want to get to know her or Not for that matter?
whichwayisup Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 I think people forget that men are humans! I mean, they're not that hard to figure out! People are people, we all feel emotions. They just handle it differently and aren't as descriptive in conversation when it comes to dealing with emotions and talking about it, that's all. Men have hearts too. Sure, sex is a huge part of it, but does it matter which comes first? Once you find the right man who loves you with his c*ck and his heart, life is great!
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