BUTAFLY Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 I want to be a player. I am tired of wearing my heart on my sleve and getting hurt. NO feelings = NO pain and I can still get pleasure; sign me up! Players out their; what do I need to know...I'm ready to learn Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 Ha ha ha you and me both honey! tell me how to do it as well because i guess i could use some lessons in dating after a long dry spell! Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 learn to not ask and just do learn to understand the opposite sex enough, which means learning to make friends first with the opposite sex. Reading dating guides or anything like that is utter and stupid trash. lie alot learn to smooth talk and charm the crowd enhance your worst and best qualities; basically completely change who you are as a person. learn to not call someone back theres more but basically become a complete dick Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 1. Don't give a rats arse for anyone elses feelings. 2. Me, its all about me, me, me. 3. Lie, a lot, all the time. 4. Leave your self respect at the door. 5. View women as objects, for your sole pleasure. 6. Say I love you to every woman you meet. 7. Hang around cemeteries, most women look good in black, and there is a plentiful supply of grieving widows. 8. Buy a medallion. 9. Grow your chest hair. 10. Buy a car with a long bonnet(Hood), wink wink. 11. Learn to say "Baby" a lot. As in "Do you want fries with that baby?" 12. Refuse to grow old, or even grow up. 13. Get a time machine and go back to prehistory, with a aluminium basball bat, start an arms race, why not! Or alternatively, continue to wear that heart on your sleeve and learn to take the beatings that are handed out to you, become a better and stronger man, develop a sense of humour over your failures. Realise that it is the ones who hurt a good man that are the losers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 1, 2006 Author Share Posted February 1, 2006 Ok mr sarcasim aka witabix, I am female so most of those things I can no use. but i'll take 1,2,3,&5 maybe even 11. thanx baby Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Treat people like they are disposable toys. It gets old after a while though. Take it from somebody who has been there. Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Women aren't meant to be players. It's not in our make-up, not in our genes. We are too emotional (even when we think we're being tough ) to do the playa thing. Some women work it with success. But you want to know why? Because they are dead inside. They have no self esteem so they are happy to tout themselves around men. Surely you'd rather be a loving, emotional, proud, confident woman? Unless you have some serious issues, which it doesn't sound like, then the only person that will come out of this worse off is you. The only person you'll hurt is you!! Your emotions will get the better of you, and you'll regret it no doubt. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Women aren't meant to be players. It's not in our make-up, not in our genes. We are too emotional (even when we think we're being tough ) to do the playa thing. Some women work it with success. But you want to know why? Because they are dead inside. They have no self esteem so they are happy to tout themselves around men. Surely you'd rather be a loving, emotional, proud, confident woman? Unless you have some serious issues, which it doesn't sound like, then the only person that will come out of this worse off is you. The only person you'll hurt is you!! Your emotions will get the better of you, and you'll regret it no doubt. Women can be just as good players as men. I have seen them in action and the only weakness they have as getting bested by a better player which is a weakness males have as well. I bested a female player because she met her match but before me she did it very well. Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Women can be just as good players as men. I have seen them in action and the only weakness they have as getting bested by a better player which is a weakness males have as well. I bested a female player because she met her match but before me she did it very well. I'm sure some women can, but don't you think they have to totally close off their emotions to do it well...? I don't know. I've seen close friends do it, and only ever come out worse off, feeling bad about themselves. How did you friend deal with the emotional side of things? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 I'm sure some women can, but don't you think they have to totally close off their emotions to do it well...? I don't know. I've seen close friends do it, and only ever come out worse off, feeling bad about themselves. How did you friend deal with the emotional side of things? Players of both genders enjoy using others because it makes them feel powerful. When the tables are turned on them and they get used themselves it throws them for a loop because that power is taken away. That is what happened to this woman. I wouldn't call her a friend because she is a militant feminist manhater who plays men as some sort of gender war. She thought she was playing me but I played her and she couldn't take it. I don't think this is specific to one gender though. Men are much more emotionally complex than we get credit for but society conditions us not to show it. Women would be surprised by what they found if they scanned the average man's brain. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 I want to be a player. I am tired of wearing my heart on my sleve and getting hurt. NO feelings = NO pain and I can still get pleasure; sign me up! Players out their; what do I need to know...I'm ready to learn I'm not a player, but from what I've witnessed it just requires you to do 2 things. 1. Lower your standards drastically 2. Select partners who are insecure and/or have a low intelligence level. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 1, 2006 Author Share Posted February 1, 2006 Men are much more emotionally complex than we get credit for but society conditions us not to show it. Women would be surprised by what they found if they scanned the average man'sbrain[/i]. men are the most complex creatures to me. I hear your sentament alot, men saying they are emotional, caring but do the complete opposite so it just makes them look like liers. Woggle take us on the journey through the adverage mans mind. What on god green earth are you men thinking? Do most of you have feelings (not ego)actual feelings? are they capable of getting hurt? are men capable of reconizing others peoples feelings? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 men are the most complex creatures to me. I hear your sentament alot, men saying they are emotional, caring but do the complete opposite so it just makes them look like liers. Woggle take us on the journey through the adverage mans mind. What on god green earth are you men thinking? Do most of you have feelings (not ego)actual feelings? are they capable of getting hurt? are men capable of reconizing others peoples feelings? Yes but society wants us to be stoic and manly so we hold a lot in. There is much more going on inside our heads than what we say. Link to post Share on other sites
AndrewJ Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 word woggle Link to post Share on other sites
Author BUTAFLY Posted February 1, 2006 Author Share Posted February 1, 2006 Yes but society wants us to be stoic and manly so we hold a lot in. There is much more going on inside our heads than what we say. like what. When you see a women do you immediatley want to bang her or do you actually want to get to know her? or does the sex come first, then depending on how that goes want to get to know her or Not for that matter? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 I think people forget that men are humans! I mean, they're not that hard to figure out! People are people, we all feel emotions. They just handle it differently and aren't as descriptive in conversation when it comes to dealing with emotions and talking about it, that's all. Men have hearts too. Sure, sex is a huge part of it, but does it matter which comes first? Once you find the right man who loves you with his c*ck and his heart, life is great! Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 And, WWIU, a hearty c0ck is good too eh? Link to post Share on other sites
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