brunette8806 Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 I met this guy about a month and a half ago and we've been seeing each other ever since. I really like him and i thought that he liked me too but lately i've been getting a different feeling. I can't tell if he really likes me for me or if he just wants a piece of ass once in a while. I've met his parents and he's met my parents...and he brings me around his friends to hang out and i've brought him around my friends. I am just concerned with the fact that he doesn't call me that often...im used to guys calling me a lot when they like me. We're also not officially "going out" and that confuses me too...i'd love to be his girlfriend so i dont know what his deal is. do you think that he really likes me? how could i go about talking to him about this? i dont want to sound clingy and rush him into anything. help me please!
Lucasarts Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 you seem more like to be his "friend" and not his girl...i think he just sees you as someone cool to hang out with sometimes. i would wait it out and give him subtle hints and signs that you like him, and see if he changes his tune or not.
hyakku Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 It seems that when a guy doesn't chase after a girl and shower her, she immediatly skips to the other extreme of, "Does he like me?". Fortunately (well not so fortunate for you women) for guys that get what's going on here, it works in our favor because you always are thinking about if he "likes you" or not and soon it almost turns into something like an obsession (not stalker type, relax I'm not calling you a stalker....yet), and you end up liking him a ton without knowing if he has the same sentiment back. Solution from a guy like him: Lean back, let him come to you (I feel so dirty ruining what this guy's got going here but since it's the only way you'll know), and see where it goes. If he only comes once in a while for sex, you've got a friend with benefits, if you wanna keep it or leave it its up to you, if he tries to spend more time with you and take you on dates, etc, then you know it may evolve into something new.
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