caity Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 i have really large boobs, naturally. im not into getting a reduction but i do try to be somewhat modest about it. it also seems that most of the guys that ever ask me out or talk to me are the perverted type who just want some. i never have been asked to meet the guys parents or over to a guys house to just hangout with his family. is this because the guy is afraid/embarassed that their parents will think all they want from me are my big boobs?
witabix Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Please don't get hung up on it. You just haven't met the right guy yet. Some men have boob fixation. Some don't. Keep us abreast of any change. 1
whichwayisup Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 If you're abit self conscious of it, then wear looser fitting tops, especially when meeting the parents. Or put on a dress jacket with the top too. I don't know. Be happy with what you have. A real man will love ALL of you, not just the boobs. That (the boobs) should be an added bonus. Show your confidence and love yourself - That security will be noticed.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 I have big boobs as well and am very self concious .. Some men love big boobs, but i know it can make you wonder if that is all they like and don't see the real you!! Good luck
7on Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 You just probably draw in more of the "sleazier" guys, no offense. And the shy, good guys are probably just intimidated by your breasts. As for the bad part, unless they're causing back problems I wouldn't worry. You'll just have to do more weeding to find the rose in your garden.
CaliGuy Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Personally I prefer small, firm, perky ones but I wouldn't date or not date someone based on their boobs. It's not what she is, it's who she is that I care about.
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