Rich30 Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Hi Everyone, This is my first post here. In the middle of November, I met a girl at a local nightclub. We hit it off instantly and for the first time in a long time, I felt some major chemistry when we kissed. To make a long story short, we ended up going back to her place that night and had amazing sex probably the best I've ever had. Anyway, in the morning, I got up and left. I told her I would call, but I never did as I was unsure if she would want me to call. Anyway, I didn't really think about her much after that night, but about a month later, I ran into her again at the same club. I was very happy to see her and she asked why I didn't call. I told her that I just assumed she didn't want me to. Anyway, she was with a bachlorette party that night, so we hung out together for about an hour. I kissed her and told her I'd call her the next week. About a week later, I call her and we talk for a good hour. I was instantly attracted to her intelligence, as she was independent and had a Masters degree, and a great job. I too am quite successful, so this was exactly who I was looking for. Anyway, we went out for our first official date and it was fantastic just speaking with her. She was simply stunning. This time we ended up at my place and once again had great sex. I felt we really connected on more than one level.... I call her a couple of days later, and arrange another date. We talk on the phone for another hour and she excitedly agrees to drinks and a movie. The night seemed to go well, as we had so more great convo over drinks and then we went back to her place for a night cap. We were lying together on the couch just kissing and then once again, we had sex. I stayed the night and kissed her goodbye in the morning and left to go to work. I called her 2 days later while I was having a coffee before work and talked for another half an hour or so. I asked her to call me after she got back from the wedding on Sunday. This is where it goes downhill.....Sunday comes around no call...fine.. Tuesday is my b-day...no call.....So I send an e-mail Wednesday, with no response....I call and leave a message on her home voicemail Wednesday night...no response.... Anyhow, I accidently deleted her home number but still had her cell...I call Sunday noon, but she has no voicemail, I try again Monday night....nada.... I have not contacted her since, nor have I received contact since Dec 30th. I have no idea what to do as this is REALLY eating me up for some reason...Do I just forget this? I have got her home number as it turned up on my cell phone bill. I would really like to pursue this, but I don't want to come off as some chump that can't take a hint. A couple things that bother me though, is that she ended an 8 year relationship last January and the fact that we slept together the first night makes me wonder if I'm a rebound . Any advice would be appreciated greatly. Thanks....
hyakku Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Its been since December 30th? Call her now, if she doesn't answer, maybe call her ina few days leave a message and then thats it. Cut her off. You don't have time to waste with women who wanna play games.
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