niceguy69 Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 My gf and I are 25 and we went out for two years. She broke up with me and we sort of got back together but then it didnt work out. It has felt like a huge divorce or something, and I still think about her every 10 minutes and I havent seen her in a month! We both loved each other and almost got married but we just fought too much. I realize now she is dating and I realize it will never work out between us, and I tell myself I dont care, but I cant forget the memories! My question is, what will happen years from now? Do you ever forget your first love? Ive heard that heroin and cigarette addicts still think of the drugs decades after they quit. Maybe love is equally addictive?
CaliGuy Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 When you let go, really truly let go and accept it's over, things will get better. It's merely a battle between your mind and your heart. In this case, your mind should be taking over. It should be telling you to let go, that's it's better that it ended now rather than in a messy divorce and that the sooner you get over her and occupy your time with friends, hobbies and working out the sooner you'll heal and meet someone else. Just heed the lessons you have learned and don't repeat the same mistakes.
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