joel Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 i wonder about this and if anyone here nows-are late bloomer guys i mean late- 25 or around that age little older or younger yr old -no gf , nothing no kiss -and also shy guys -are they more likely not to cheat on their gf and be more faithful , stay with her longer and try to fix things out rather than leave or does it not make any differ. less likely to flirt and try out differ girls. maybe also date and then not phone bacl, play games -are late bloomers less likely to play games. i wonder why some guys are late bloomers like what caused em to be like that-myself-my folks are very strict and i come from a very sheltered life.why are they so late. what can they do to make em change their behaviour. anyone now of anybody like that-late bloomers.
Yamaha Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Guys like this would tend to be needy and clingy. Yes, they probably would not cheat but he would be underfoot all the time with no life of his own. He would make the girl his world and she would feel smothered. Most guys are late bloomers because they are shy and hate rejection. They also lack confidence and feel inadequate. You must get over your fear and be proactive.
SmoochieFace Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Some guys are *late bloomers* because of rejection itself - not necessarily *fear of rejection*. One cannot *have experience* if no-one gives them a chance, right?
ddnnee Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 depends on the guy. but here are some real census statistics: 70% women of all ages initiate break ups and divorce while 30% of men of all ages initiate breakups or divorce. in my views, (im a guy), my friends are very faithful, but his girls were always the ones who drop him as soon as there are problems. my first girlfriend drop me as soon as there are problems as well. generally girls do not like to find solutions and the only one that they see are abandonment.
SuperMonk Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Late bloomers don't mean they're socially inept for dating or friendship nor does it means they play less games. I'm a late bloomer myself and didn't really start actively dating till my early 20s, and to tell you the truth about the stereotype, No I didn't get rejected. I experienced dating like many others EXCEPT I was more mature about the whole process because I've done my own soul searching compared to guys who didn't. I didn't date "just to get booty" like many others who are in their 20s, I dated because I wanted to look for a long term partner. Since it sounds like you haven't been in the dating game, you must know this. Finding the perfect woman is very difficult the first time around, don't worry about the compatibility issue as many scientists have said that it is the best way for a relationship. Date around, your own mind will figure out what kinda women work for you and what kinda women don't work. Girls are more smart about this since they are chased at a higher rate than men and know what they want after a couple of boyfriends. But some guys out there, they are more than willing to marry the first woman just because, don't be those guys. Mess up, Learn, it's life.
SuperMonk Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 depends on the guy. but here are some real census statistics: 70% women of all ages initiate break ups and divorce while 30% of men of all ages initiate breakups or divorce. in my views, (im a guy), my friends are very faithful, but his girls were always the ones who drop him as soon as there are problems. my first girlfriend drop me as soon as there are problems as well. generally girls do not like to find solutions and the only one that they see are abandonment. Why find solutions to a dead relationship? Cut those girls some slack, they're letting you know ahead of time it won't work. It's much better than being in an empty unhappy relationship. 2
TheSwordfish Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Well, I have a different theory. Being a "late bloomer" means you didn't have as many relationships before. And when you only had one girl in your life, you might get teh feeling you are missing out on something. On the other hand. If you have a handsome shy person, that hardly had any sexual partners it might be because of shyness, good self control or being picky..... You never know...
MElatebloomer Posted February 5, 2006 Posted February 5, 2006 My statistics: 1st GF age 28. 1st Sex age 30. 1st and only divorce age 47. Total GF's including wife (3). Never have and never will cheat. Late bloomer because I physically did not develop until my late twenties. Now Im5'9 ideal body weight. I have no problem in finding dates, just cautious about finding the right partner.
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