kitkat. Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Hi, Sorry if this sounds a bit wierd but I'm a little confused right now! My bf and I broke up for good recently. Its been really difficult and I've felt like I'm going nuts in trying to deal with all these emotions. I haven't cried today or yesterday which is progress but when I go out with my friends in the evening I get really drunk and am starting to flirt with guys a bit. I don't think anyone minds except me and, for some reason,a few guys seem interested. I've never been single at uni before as I've been with a bf for 3 years. Opportunities for a fling but worried about my reputation and general sanity cos feels like I'm loosing control a bit. One guy in particular I'm quite keen on and I know he's liked me while i was with my bf. But think I'm going to make a complete fool of myself while I'm like this...? Does that make sense to anyone? Maybe I sound as mental as I feel! Thanks, kit
JadeStar Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Its good that you have reconized these feelings. The first thing I would do is stop going out drinking and putting yourself out there to get hurt. You're really in a vulnerable state right now with breaking up with your b/f etc, and drinking is not going to help. If anything it will make you even more vulnerable. If you are worried about your reputation I say cut out the drinking, and take some time for yourself to get your head cleared about things. Jade
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