Guinevere04 Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 My boyfriend and I broke up the day before my birthday, exactly two weeks ago. He broke up with me because someone had told him that I had dated one of my guy friends in high school (14 years ago) and he said that I lied and said we were only friends. I have never been anything but friends with this other guy, even though he always liked me. BUt my boyfriend didnt give me a chance to explain whatsoever. I was fine with us breaking up because he had almost driven me nuts with his immaturity. He is 6 years younger than me but he acts about 15 years old instead of 25. There we lots of uncertainties for me with him anyway. He is 25, has 3 kids and has had a vasectomy so I know if we stayed together, I could never have any kids with him. But I love him and when he begged for forgiveness for not believing me about that lie, I followed my heart instead of my head and gave him one last chance. We have broken up and gotten back together probably 20 times in the last year and 1/2 and I had gotten pretty fed up. He swore that he would change and things would be better. So, Friday night, we were going to spend some time together for only the 2nd time in the two weeks we had been broken up. He didnt even call me on my birthday mind you. So he told me thursday morning that he couldnt do anything because his car had broken down. He told me at 4pm that he couldnt borrow his mom's car because she had church at 7:30. He calls about 9pm and said that he rented a car and could come over. So when he got there I asked him when he got the car and how did he get there? He lives 30 minutes from my town where the rental car place is. So he said his mom took him right before church. He smelled like food and had beer on his breath so I asked him when he ate? He said he and his mom went out to eat, what about the beer? Oh he had a beer before he left his house, he doesnt drink around his mom. I didnt believe a word of it, but I didnt say anything. So Friday, I am in his rental car and I see a fast food bag. He wasnt in the car at the time and the receipt on the food said the day before at 1:15. I looked in the glove compartment and he rented the car at 12:38 when he told me that his mom took him at 7pm. When I asked him about these two things he said that he had rented the car at 12:38 but his mom took him at 7pm and they had the car waiting for him. I said, so you didnt have to sign anything? He said no, I pulled out the receipt and it showed where he HAD signed it. He admitted that he lied about what time he got the car, but he said he thought I needed a night to myself. So why would he call me at 4pm, when he already had rented the car and say that he couldnt come? WHY LIE? I also found out that he had eaten breakfast that morning at IHOP and the receipt was for $17, how much can one person eat. THen I found out that he was actually off work on Friday and lied the entire day. I knew in my heart that it wouldnt work. I gave him the benefit of the doubt for him to change because I love him. But I was willing to work it out and he has been lying to me??? I feel like I could just strangle him. I told him to tell me the truth since I knew he was lying and he said that it didnt matter. I called him the next morning because I had ordered $100 worth of concert tix and I dont want them but he needs to pay me for them if he wants them. He said he did want them and he would explain all of his lies but I had to come to his house, he didnt want to tell me anything over the phone. I said that I was not driving 30 minutes to hear more lies. We both said some horrible things and I hung up on him. I am so pissed off about being lied to. If he had someone else or wanted someone else, why in the world would he beg me back or promise all of these changes? I dont want to know the truth, because I am having a hard enough time dealing with the lies he has already admitted to. I swear, this kind of thing makes you not trust anyone, beause even though we had some fights, he was my very best friend. I have gotten rid of everything in my house that reminds me of him but I cant get this out of my mind. I hate to be lied to.
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