bumbaclot Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 My GF asks me if I missed her. I did miss her. 1. Should I tell her that I did, or should I skip from the answer or change the subject? 2. Is it one of those womans tests? 3. Will I come out insecure if I say that I did miss her? 4. What if I say first that I missed her? The questions are influenced by David DeAngelo's book "Double Your Dating"... 1
clynn Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 That depends. Did you miss her or didn't you? I would imagine if she asked you all the time it might get a bit annoying and seem insecure. But if she wants a little reassurance now and then, give it to her. And if you actually genuinely feel like you missed her, then come right out and tell her you did. I wouldn't put too much stock into those silly books.
Candied-Heart Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 My GF asks me if I missed her. I did miss her. 1. Should I tell her that I did, or should I skip from the answer or change the subject? 2. Is it one of those womans tests? 3. Will I come out insecure if I say that I did miss her? 4. What if I say first that I missed her? 1 ] Yeah. Say you missed her if you missed her. No biggie. Can aways play it down, like "yeah, I did actually " very now-that-you-mention-it. 2 ] Most women know a guy will say yes anyway even if they don't because they are afraid of our reading into things and well, not missing me after I was gone more than a few days would be strange and a strong indcator of the extent of our R'ship. 3 ] Insecure? No. I'd love to hear it provided it wasn't every time I went away to work or something. THAT'S a tad OTT. 4 ] Great idea. I swoon at the thought.
FireReady Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 There's nuttin wrong with admitting that you missed her. Doesn't make you any less of a man, and if anything, it shows her that you can even be sensitive (surprise! women actually find that sexy in a man) and send her to girlstalkaboutitall.com for some relief and confidence building so that she doesnt have to seek out compliments and reinforcement from you, but rather stay confident in who she is.
Author bumbaclot Posted January 30, 2006 Author Posted January 30, 2006 Thanks everyone. Sounds good! and send her to girlstalkaboutitall.com Haha
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