sixersone2000 Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 ok this is kind of complicated. i only stated dating my current girlfriend a in december. before that, the last girl i went out with was...her younger sister. now, after that one date , the younger sister said that we couldnt date due to the fact that we had a 3 year age gap and the parents wouldnt allow it. she included though that she truely likes me back (she even said she wishs she were older to be with me!). this girl was the first person in a long time that i had true strong feelings for and this hurt a lot. it took me a little over a month just to stop thinking about her as much as i had. the main way i got as detached as i got, was to have pretty much no communication with her or not even bring her up in conversation because i knew the feelings would come back. so about a month and a half after i dated the sister, i started going out with my current girlfriend. for about a month it was only me and my girlfriend hanging out. everything was going fine untill her sister had more gaps in her schedule. i tried to be the good boyfriend and voulenteered myself to drive lil sis around and hang out with her when she didnt have any plans. i thought that the fact that i "got over" her already would mean i would have no more feelings for her, but to my surprise, they came back...and stronger. whenever i am with my girlfriend and her sister is around, i continually flirt with her (the sister). i get along a million times better with her than i do my girlfriend, and my girlfriend even notices it. everytime i see her my day just lights up and from what i see, she feels the same too. i see her smile and become more energized when she sees me. we dont only flirt verbaly, but even pysically sometimes. but the fact that she is my girlfriends sister hurts my thought that breaking up with my girlfriend would leave me more time to be with her sister. i know that if i do this i would loose both of them. i do not know what to do, what does everyone else think?
Lucasarts Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 why did you go out with the older girl this doesnt make sense wtf were you thinking omg are you insane you dug yourself in a hole and now your stuck with terrible consequences... ok i need some air aright your problem is sorta f***ed and well its all dependent on who you like more and what is appropriate. I mean the older sis sees that there is a stronger attraction with the younger sis and you then there is between her and you. Now if you break up with this older sis and start dating the younger one *AGAIN well you're happy right? But then it fux up the entire family situation and now i am really gettin myself confused here. WHY IS THE OLDER SIS GOING OUT WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE WHEN HER YOUNGER SIS WAS DATING YOU IN THE BEGINNING?!!! anyways they must both be hot and appealing...damn thats a rare combo. Anyways this might screw up this relationship because say you start developing feelings for the older sis again...then you're just going in circles here. seriously tho i think you should just do whatever you feel is right. there is no real way to escape this situation and its gonna be messy regardless what you do. good luck man
clynn Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Break up with the older sister. Don't go out with the younger sister. Stay away from both of them. And don't mess with families again. Man, how stupid.
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