rick812 Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 The girl that I have been seing for the last couple months has been acting differently lately. Last night she told me she was going to see a play with her mom. She did not call me until after 1 am. She told me where she saw the play, so i went online and come to find out there was no performance last night. Do I confront her? I think she was out on a date.
gfto Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 Sounds like this girl is a little deficient in the integrity department. So, you have to ask youself whether you want to be with her in the first place. Plus, you're noticing that she's acting a little differently recently. That's your gut telling you that she is losing interest. Always listen to your gut. If it were me, I would simply quit calling her and start the search for a new girlfriend. Life is too short. I would not confront her about it. I'd just wait until she calls again, and then ask her a bunch of questions about the play!! Try these....so, what play was it again? Who was in it? What was your favorite part? Was it crowded? Would you recommend the play to others? What did your mom think of the play? Have fun with it!
hyakku Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 The girl that I have been seing for the last couple months has been acting differently lately. Last night she told me she was going to see a play with her mom. She did not call me until after 1 am. She told me where she saw the play, so i went online and come to find out there was no performance last night. Do I confront her? I think she was out on a date. WOAH wait. Is she your girlfriend, or a girl you've been SEEING, as in dating. Going on dates does not make her your property and if you haven't discussed being exclusive with each other, she has every RIGHT to date other man as you do. If you have been exclusive with each other and seeing each other alone, THEN confront her about it. I don't know why guys think the minute they start dating a woman that they own her. Again if she is your "girlfriend" and you her "boyfriend" and you both decided to be exclusive together then forget what I said and confront her.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Exclusive talk or not - no one ever "owns" anyone else. I think the issue here is that she lied! If you two have already had the exlusivity talk, then that is bad and I agree with the first poster. If you two have just been dating - I still do not think there is any excuse to lie - so there is still an issue here. I'd say she's moving on and you should too. If not you will have to confront her. Good luck!
clandestinidad Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 She's obviously a liar. She'll lie about lots of things. I wouldnt confront her, b/c she'll lie and come up with excuses. And those excuses probably wouldnt satisfy you. So, if a relationship were to continue, you'd have a very hard time trusting her now. So actually, this relationship probably wont go anywhere which therefore renders it pointless to continue. Drop her. She's a liar If she asks why, just tell her you found out there wasnt a play there that night and you dont want to waste time with liars. That should cut it off pretty quickly, and allow you to move along to someone worth your time
Walk Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 If they aren't exclusive (haven't had the talk) it really doesn't matter. They've been dating for a couple months now, and you'd think she'd either know he was who she wanted to be with or not. To give her the benefit of the doubt, sometimes websites are wrong. Sometimes they have special showings they don't post on the site, or other exceptions. Personally I'd call the theater, or whatever it is, and ask them if they had a showing. I've come across too many sites that say there's nothing going on, and yet there's been a show or performance that night. So just double check before you jump her azz about it.
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