Sevenmack Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 As far as I'm concerned, calling the woman is part of building communication. But it goes both ways. One problem I have in particular with some women is that they never call on their own volition, expecting you to do all the work when they forget that a relationship is a two-way street. So I'll often call them, then cease doing so after a few weeks to see if they'll actually not take yours truly for granted. If they don't, then I'll usually sit them down during a date and let them know that they have to do as much calling as I do, plain and simple. Does it always work? In many situations, the relationship may not be working anyway or she may not be into you enough to put in the effort. Or I may not be into her enough to continue the effort, especially if other women are providing you the caresses, the kisses, the sex and the companionship that I'm seeking. Too many women forget that for the men, dating is no easy thing. Plenty of women are fickle, changing their minds the way the wind blows in different directions. It's costly; a date need not be expensive (over $30 outside of New York and L.A., over $75 in either city), but it won't be cheap either. And then there's all the wooing one is doing to build a relationship, which is just as much an ego-stroke as it is a revelation of each other as human beings. A little effort on the woman's end goes a long way.
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