Wing Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 Ok, here is my problem, I with my bf for two months now. everything going great, just that I moved bit too fast. I mean both of us were moving too fast. we kissed, and we show a lot of affection. we talks everyday. and see each other nearly every second day. I have been to his house twice (he lives alone), and second time I stayed there for a night (in seperate rooms). I feel he is a decent guy, I really like him. But I felt we moved bit fast, and I am afriad it will be a "crush and burn". I care about him and I am serious about this relationship ( my first and his first). so finally I decided to talk to him. That was 2 minutes ago on msn. Basically I said to him that I felt we went bit too fast. I like him and I care about him and I am serious about our relationship, thus I don't want make any mistakes and I would try to do the right thing to keep the relationship grow. He said he agree he also felt we went fast, and he also believe we should still have plenty time for self and have own life. he said he also would do right thing to keep our relationship grow. things like that. However, during the conversation he only had very short response each time, did not talk much, and left msn very short after our conversation. I am not sure If that was the right thing to do that I talked about it with him. and will this talk affect our relationship? Thanks plz. any opinion welcome:bunny:
ddnnee Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 sometimes a guy can sense something and avoids the problem. If you told me something like that, i would definately end it because i felt that i was tossed into the "friendzone". but.... u should talk to him more.
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