gordon_gc Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 Hi, My exgf broke up with me about 3 months ago now. I had ups and downs and got string along until I realised I couldnt live with that false hope all my life. I have been in strict NC for the last 3 weeks. It is hard but I know that is the only way I will get respect for myself and possibly show my ex I deserve respect too. I have moved on by realising nothing else will happen between us two but still, I am not happy. I am trying to socialise and meet new people and girls but I lost my mojo, my confidence... Where is it ? How do I get it back ? Why even though I have accepted the break up, I still feel unhappy ???
CaliGuy Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 You'll get it back when you realize you are worthy of being loved, work on your self-respect and your confidence. Pick up some books on both subjects. Realize your Ex didn't work out for a reason, learn from the experience and know that if you do, you won't make the same mistakes again.
fooled Posted January 29, 2006 Posted January 29, 2006 Or maybe you truly haven't let go yet. It's been 3 weeks of NC for me - and today I was daydreaming about her - even though there's zero chance of us reconciling.
Author gordon_gc Posted January 29, 2006 Author Posted January 29, 2006 My happiness is not due to NC...I have learnt to live with NC !!! dont misunderstand me. What I feel is wrong with me is mostly the fact that before my relationship, I could go out and socialise and be successful in meeting new people but now...NOTHING !!! Whenever I try to go out, I do am happy to be with my friends and I am not even looking to pickup but still, people can see throught me and tell something is goign wrong...It is really like my mojo has gone with my exgf (bloody hell, she already took our relationship away, what more does she want??? ;-)
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