stillhurting92 Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 I am ready to be over my breakup any day now. I dated my guy for about 4 years and after we broke up we still continued to speak, It has now been almost 3 years and I can't get over him. What the hell is wrong with me. I know, I know I should stop talking to him. But I have almost no girlfriends and he is my best friend. How do I have a friendship with him and still get over him. I really want this to be possible but I am at my witts end. If I break all ties he doesn't see what he is missing and I loose my best friend. What do I do? Any suggestions other than the obvious.
whats wrong with me Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 Why dont you have many girlfriends and even though you are broke up are you still sleeping with him? (assuming you were)
jerbear Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 Why don't you have to many girlfriends or even friends? It is possible that this was your closests and deepest connection? Different people take different times to get over and heal. If you really need a friend sometimes old friends and even trusted aquantances can be a temporary support structure. Another location if your employer offers it, use the work / life balance program. Good luck
CaliGuy Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 I am ready to be over my breakup any day now. I dated my guy for about 4 years and after we broke up we still continued to speak, It has now been almost 3 years and I can't get over him. What the hell is wrong with me. I know, I know I should stop talking to him. But I have almost no girlfriends and he is my best friend. How do I have a friendship with him and still get over him. I really want this to be possible but I am at my witts end. If I break all ties he doesn't see what he is missing and I loose my best friend. What do I do? Any suggestions other than the obvious. This is a prime example of why you should never be friends with an Ex whom you still love. As painful as it is to be dumped, it's much, much worse to hang on and be friends as it will never allow you to let go, move on and heal. This is why NC is so heavily suggested here. It's not used for revenge or a way to get them back. It's 100% for your healing.
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