KPM Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 I guess I know the answer to this question but am looking for a second oppion... My girfriend of almost 4 years has left me with the departing lines of "The energy differance between us is bothering her" and the latest is "She needs space." We met 15 years ago in high school and had a talking only relationship. Then after 10 or so years she emails me out of the blue. We meet up and really kicked it off. We have had our ups and downs like all relationships but I think this may be "it'. I think part of it might be that she has a little girl from a past relationship (her Dad is a real putz) and wants the best of her. Her daughter and I have a great time together! Might sound odd but I have more feelings for her than her Mum! It has been almost three weeks now. No real conversations between us. She said she wanted space and I have backed away to let her have it. I guess my question is what to do next. Wait more? Try and talk to her? I will do anything not to cut it loose. Please help. KPM
gfto Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 "energy difference." I love it. The real difference here is between your interest levels in each other. Yours is still in the stratosphere; hers is going down the drain. "Space" is one of those magic words that spells the end of your relationship. Stick with no contact. Don't wait for her. Get new phone numbers.
Author KPM Posted January 31, 2006 Author Posted January 31, 2006 OK! She tries callin me but will not answer when I call back. Then I get a text that says stop and let her be... Im not even bugging her! I backed way off! HAHA I love it
gfto Posted February 1, 2006 Posted February 1, 2006 You shouldn't have even called back. It's over. Let her talk to your voice mail from now on!
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