How do I deal with this ??

[The 5th of November]

Hey, this is really confusing me so if anyone can help me out it'd be greatly appreciated.

 

I'm 18, she's 19, (not that that matters much), and we've known each other for a couple of years now (we go to the same school). I've liked her for a long time, but only recently had the you-know-what to tell her. So I got a positive responce, we went out on a few dates that went fantastic...we have many things in common, get along great and definitely have that "spark" and potential between us. But then when the holidays were over, a big problem (atleast for me) came up. She is just so damn busy, we barely get to see each other. She's in so many different organizations, groups, activites etc etc (which ironically is one of the things I like most about her)..... that I'm really lucky if we get to be together atleast once a week (although we still talk every night pretty much). I think that she really does like me (maybe not as much as me her...yet), cause when we are together we have a great time...but somehow our very limited time together doesn't seem to bother her that much. (or I dunno...females are hard to figure out)

 

We've talked about this, and I've assured her that I understand that she's a very busy person and I'm not going to stop her from doing anything she likes because all I want for her is to be happy (which is the truth), and we'll just have to make the most of our time together when we do get a chance...and I can tell she's happy with this kind of relationship.

 

The rub is - I'm not. I know I've told her that...but once a week (if not less) is just not enough for me. And her schedule doesn't seem like it will be lightening any time in the near future. Speaking of that...it also looks very likely that this fall we will be in different countries for college, so that part looks all doom and gloom... Some people may say that it's not worth it then.... yet, I like this girl so damn much, more than I've ever liked anyone else. She's one in a million...no way in hell am I going to give up on this.

 

Or should I ? Am I just wasting my time ? Or do I simply need more patience ? How do I deal with this ? Help, please

[bluechocolate]

Can't you join one or some of these groups and/or organisations that she's in?

[The 5th of November]

I've thought about it, but I wouldn't really have the time (I have my own things I gotta do to you know) or commitment needed for them. Still, if she asked me to I would probably try...but she hasn't.