Blazin2 Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 This looks like a good site to post about problems and get advice etc. I see it can be a little bit about everything. I know my wife posts here and she knows I know. However, I had no clue at some of the things that were actually said on here. I understand it can be fun and games, but whats up with alot of the dirty talking amoungst people who are married? Sure its probably fun, but seems like to me alot of people are crossing lines. I had no idea my wife was exchanging things in a sexual nature here, be it for fun and games or whatever. I guarantee if it were me saying things in a sexual way to another female on here I would be out on my backside. Here I thought things were going pretty good with us, guess I was mistaken since she feels the need to swap things such as sexual talk. No I don't see it all the time but occassionaly I do. Wow, see ya at home dear.
JadeStar Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 So she knows you know she posts on here, and I'm assumming she knows you read her posts then? If she knows this, then she probably feels by talking in a sexual nature about things she has nothing to hide right? Are you meaning shes asking questions to others about sexual things in order to get help for something, or are you meaning shes talking sexually with people as in possibly trying to hook up? Jade 1
blind_otter Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 This is why no one IRL knows what I do online.
Blazin2 Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 No its not that I think shes looking to hook up really. However, we have had some past issues we have been working on about things, and I understand she can come here to seek advice etc, but when a marriage is already in a vulnerable state to begin with I feel talking dirty about things be it for fun and games is still not a good idea. She has asked questions on here reguarding things about sex seeking advice,which is something I don't really care for, she needs to talk with me about things and our counselor not everybody under the sun. And yes I have seen where she also talks about things sexually thats not been a questioned she has asked. Yes she lets me read her posts sometimes. Not any that have been sexual though. I found those on my own by doing a search for her name. She acts real strange when shes been on here sometimes. I will walk in and she will close it out, guess thats when shes talking her sex talk on here or something. And even though she feels she has nothing to hide, thats great but can become a problem in itself becasue what she sees she is doing she feels is not wrong, where as I do when it comes to talking about certain things. I don't post things about our life, and I sure wouldn't do it about something sexual. Thats to be discussed amount her and I and our counselor if need be. Like I said if I were to joke about things in a sexual manner, wheather I was looking for advice or fun and games she would have my head on a platter. Now is that fair? I wouldn't do it one because I don't care too, and I don't because I know she wouldn't like it. We have discussed this before, but I see it matters not what I feel on the matter, shes going to do it anyway. I also will not talk with her about this again right away, even though I should but shes gonna do it anyway, so I will lay low and continue to see whats going on first.
SmoochieFace Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Well, I will say that the way some people talk here makes me wonder whether they are here to give out advice and help people - or to try and *hook up* with others.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 NAW it is all for fun Smoothie all in how you perceive it! We come to give advice as well ..
SmoochieFace Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 NAW it is all for fun Smoothie all in how you perceive it! We come to give advice as well .. Well, the OP doesn't see it that way and, to be frank, if I was in his shoes I'd feel the same way.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Wondering that too .. Could be someone else posing you never know !!
tanbark813 Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Are you meaning shes asking questions to others about sexual things in order to get help for something, or are you meaning shes talking sexually with people as in possibly trying to hook up? I think he means flirting in a sexual way. Who's your wife, Blazin2? 1
tinktronik Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 I think he means flirting in a sexual way. Who's your wife, Blazin2? not gonna tell, understandable .We'll well just wait and see whos missing. Theres mostly just been some flirting on here , well except for the fantasy stuff.
loony Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 This is why no one IRL knows what I do online. Ditto!
whichwayisup Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Noone is hooking up, especially the married folks. Look, we ALL KNOW the hot threads, sexy stuff is just fun play. I highly doubt anybody is thinking, "Oh gee, WWIU likes me" when I joke about. That is all it is. A group of people who are just weird, twisted and looking for help and advice at times, the other stuff helps ya through the day. Gives a good laugh. Sex talk and the flirting really is just for fun. It's interesting to hear about other people's fantasies, thoughts about sex. I know I've learned afew things from others here. My husband thanks you all for that. Honestly, if you are bothered that your wife is joining in the on the fun, talk to her. Does she know that you are reading her posts? Or are you checking up on her? Just curious. Now, if all this was face to face, NOONE would be talking like we talk here. ONline it's safer and it's not like anybody is gonna get a knock at their front door... Anyway, this place has helped me alot and I've been really lucky along the way to meet some really kind people here too. Many make me laugh and so many are wonderful in giving advice. On second thought, if you're MY husband (never say never!) You know me well enough that I'm a perverted dirty minded person and these folks get to enjoy my humour, and I get it out of my system so you don't have to put up with it later on! hehe...Oh and I love you! Can't wait till later tonight after the guests come home! 1
lilmoma1973 Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Noone is hooking up, especially the married folks. Look, we ALL KNOW the hot threads, sexy stuff is just fun play. I highly doubt anybody is thinking, "Oh gee, WWIU likes me" when I joke about. That is all it is. A group of people who are just weird, twisted and looking for help and advice at times, the other stuff helps ya through the day. Gives a good laugh. Sex talk and the flirting really is just for fun. It's interesting to hear about other people's fantasies, thoughts about sex. I know I've learned afew things from others here. My husband thanks you all for that. Honestly, if you are bothered that your wife is joining in the on the fun, talk to her. Does she know that you are reading her posts? Or are you checking up on her? Just curious. Now, if all this was face to face, NOONE would be talking like we talk here. ONline it's safer and it's not like anybody is gonna get a knock at their front door... Anyway, this place has helped me alot and I've been really lucky along the way to meet some really kind people here too. Many make me laugh and so many are wonderful in giving advice. Ditto WWIU!!
cygny Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Well, the OP doesn't see it that way and, to be frank, if I was in his shoes I'd feel the same way. I have to agree with you. Wouldn't want my H doing that with anyone but me. 1
tinktronik Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 I have to agree with you. Wouldn't want my H doing that with anyone but me. i eally dont think my s/o would mind.
cygny Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 i eally dont think my s/o would mind. then i think its fine, if your s/o is really ok with it.
whichwayisup Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 Uh oh. Is WWIU busted?? It wasn't him. I told him about the thread and he laughed.
Art_Critic Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 I think the OP needs to talk with their SO.. What one considers okay might not be okay for another.. it seems as though his feelings are hurt.. Talk to her.. I'm sure she will respect your feelings and adjust her posting..
My_Other_I Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 Wheee, someone's butt is going to be spanked. I agree that you should talk to her about the fact that you don't like it. But remember, LS is addictive and she will be going through withrawals!
Lonestar Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 I highly doubt anybody is thinking, "Oh gee, WWIU likes me" when I joke about. I'm sorry...WHAT??? I thought you were totally serious about the threesome it's not like anybody is gonna get a knock at their front door... So, I should stop sleeping on the couch downstairs waiting for Art to knock???
whichwayisup Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 I'm sorry...WHAT??? I thought you were totally serious about the threesome So, I should stop sleeping on the couch downstairs waiting for Art to knock??? No, girls don't count, it's okay.
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