Super89Rex Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Hey guys, Here I am again, I dont know if some of you remember a few posts back I was telling you about that girl I met up with her and her friends, but anyways.. I called her and I guess she missed my call (was working) a few days later she emailed me saying she would call me Tues.. She called Tues night and we talked for a while, anyways; everything went great (she said she was embarassed by her friends the other day and was pleasantly surprised I was still interested).. Anyways, we arranged a date for Saturday and I told her I would call her today to workout the details.. I was thinking of bringing her ice skating, what do you guys think? We have a nice outdoor ice rink downtown I want to visit.. BUT, theres on problem.. I havnt ice skated since I was like 12, so needless to say I have to go buysome skates tonight as well as learn how to skate all over again!! Do you think this will make for a fun date? I was thinking it would be good time where she will be able to laugh at me fall on my ass.. lol but I would like to kiss her at the end of the date.. (after ice skating, we will prob grab something to eat, then maybe go to a movie or something or maybe bowling) Let me know what you guys think? I am definitely playing it differently this time, if most of you remember; last time I got my hopes up too much, was too eager, contacted the girl too much and I think it forced her away.. I guess you can say this is acting "aloof?"
gfto Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 Ice skating is a great idea. And, definitely go for the kiss at the end of the date so that you can gauge her interest level in you. But, in the future, I'd suggest that you work out the details when you make the date, instead of telling her you'll call her and work out the details. Also, don't talk about a future with her on your date. Don't ask her during the date if she'd like to go out again. Don't tell her you're going to call her. Keep it light and funny. If that kiss lands on her lips, then call her in a few days and ask for a second date. good luck!
Author Super89Rex Posted January 30, 2006 Author Posted January 30, 2006 Well, we ended up going on the date. Everything went great, but we didn't go ice skating.. We ended up going to this really neat mongolian grill, played some pool and rented a movie and watched it back at her place. Umm, there wasn't a kiss at the end of the night but there was a hug ?? I hope this isn't necesarilly a bad sign, she did say she wanted to go out again; that was Saturday, I think I am going to give her a call Tuesday night and ask her if she wants to go out again.. Is it necessarilly a requirement to kiss on a first date to tell if things are going alright??
barfool Posted January 30, 2006 Posted January 30, 2006 No, I don't think a kiss is a requirement. Some people like to take things at different speeds. But also know that since you are the guy most likely the time of the first kiss will be up to you. It is pretty rare for the girl to initiate the first kiss. Just give her a drawn out hug and gauge how receptive she is. Then go for it!
Author Super89Rex Posted January 30, 2006 Author Posted January 30, 2006 Hmmm so ideally it should be alright for me to try and initiate a kiss on our next date, what would you guys think about holding hands? should that necesarrily come first or after?
gfto Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 glad to hear that the date went well, but you should've gone for that kiss. (A hug doesn't mean squat. She hugs lots of guys.) Other than that, it sounds like you're on the right track. But, that kiss will answer the most important question here: does she dig you? WAY too soon for hand holding (unless SHE initiates it).
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