Yamaha Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 I am grateful that I have the opportunity to care about another. I see it as a blessing. Imagine what it would be like to be so disfigured and alone that you never get the opportunity to express how you feel about someone because you can't even get close enough to them to share how you feel. Hear, hear Padamekla--well said. You should never regret your feelings. If people can't handle them they are just afraid or unfeeling and not someone you want to be with either way. Caring for someone is what makes life worth living.
BUTAFLY Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 you say you want no feelings or pain, right? if you let that part of you go, you'll find that you can move forward. if you hold on too tightly or yearn for it so much, the situation can easily flip on you. however, if you just cruise and let things flow as they might, without expectations, then things have this funny way of working themselves out. maybe not all the time, but for some strange reason it does. does that make sense? ok ....so just let things roll of my back. don't analyse when things go bad. accept them and move on. Am I right?
Milo Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 Yes, I know. The thing that continues to gnaw at me, though, is that she's now exclusively with someone else. Like, I wasn't good enough or something. feh... frig, some days it just ain't worth getting out of bed... This woman is a tool, and there's no mincing those words. WTF is an exclusive FWB? That's the stupidest thing I have ever heard. The whole arrangement implies casualness and non-exclusivity. Prancing around pretending no one has any feelings about getting f***ked is the most asinine self-deception I've ever participated in. I only did the FWB once and never again.
riobikini Posted January 31, 2006 Posted January 31, 2006 See the following post from another recent thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=696474&postcount=25 -Rio
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