sick of it Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Well, i find that its true what everyone says. Time does make things better. Not perfect, but better. Time makes it easier to deal with the pain, but hasnt ridden me of it yet. I find however, that there are things about this breakup (and not about the breakup) that have stuck with me and changed me and i dont know why. Certain phrases, places, people, shows...certain things that i have associated with this horrible time in my life and i dont know how to disassociate them. they affect me so much that at the first mention of one of these things, my mood completely changes and i begin thinking of things, i enter the god forsaken rut we all go into. i can give examples if it would help, but i just want to be free of these chains, because thats what they are, chains with weights on them that keep me down.
patwheel Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 Time will help. At first, anything remotely associated with the ex, I was running away from it, and just try to avoid it all. Slowly, I started not caring anymore, and soon enough I found myself in a better place mentally, more stable, because I was just being myself, and not thinking about being myself in comparaison to her. Do what you have to do to be a better person, which means finding yourself a nice stable emotional open field. Exes are like bad weed, one day youll be able to deal with it rationally.
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