Naomi32 Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 So I have a crush on this guy, Bob and think he has something for me as well but is shy (always hangs around me but won't say anything, strong eye contact) ..Anyways, he overheard that I was going to Vermont and asked me to bring him back some maple syrup and I was so surprised he even initiated something, so I thought this is his way of getting an opening to ask me out. But when i came back and told him to come pick it up..he didn't. A week goes by, I'm depressed and when he sees me he's like "Oh, i better pick up the syrup, my pancakes are just bland lately". Hurtful...He finally picked it up a week after that after i threatened to sell them and i was so upset i practically through the syrup at him and wasn't very friendly at all...The next day, he returned a book I had lent him a while back and he had enclosed a bag of hershys chocolate. Whats up here?? Please interpret situation! Thank u!
magda Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 Hard to tell. He sounds shy. Is he a young guy? Does he date much?
Author Naomi32 Posted January 26, 2006 Author Posted January 26, 2006 He is not a shy guy in general and i've seen him flirt with girls...but around me he seems more awkward..
magda Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 Maybe he knows you have this crush on him so he treats you carefully. Maybe he likes you a little, but he is not too sure. Like, with many girls, if you flirt, you are not sure of the outcome. With you, it's possible that he already knows you are into him or he doesn't see you as a flirty type, so he's not sure how to treat you. really, based on what you have written, I am just speculating. Don't worry about it, though... whatever his deal is, he doesn't necessarily sound like a jerk.
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