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I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. He was suspended from work as a lifeguard.... for wearing bikinis.

 

He told me he was suspended on full pay. :eek: and I can't understand why.

 

I asked him if he was a cross-dresser but he said no, that bikinis are more comfortable than male swim shorts.

 

What do I do?

 

Bexy

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I smell a troll this morning. Anyway if this is a legit post, and he is wearing a bikini, then yes I would say he has some cross dressing fetishes going on. He is telling you what you want to hear.

 

 

 

 

Jade

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I smell a troll this morning. Anyway if this is a legit post, and he is wearing a bikini, then yes I would say he has some cross dressing fetishes going on. He is telling you what you want to hear.

 

Jade

 

I'm not a toy from the 1980s, JadeStar!! Gawd, those trolls were horrid!!

 

He still insists he is not a cross-dresser, but what I want to know is, why would you be sacked from being a lifeguard for wearing a bikini?? :confused: :confused:

 

Help please!!

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I'm not a toy from the 1980s, JadeStar!! Gawd, those trolls were horrid!!

 

He still insists he is not a cross-dresser, but what I want to know is, why would you be sacked from being a lifeguard for wearing a bikini?? :confused: :confused:

 

Help please!!

 

 

 

I wasn't referring to that kind of troll. However those troll dolls from the eighties were kind of freaky looking. So back to the topic at hand, its not uncommon for people to get suspened from work of any kind for doing something they shouldn't be or is against the rules. I'm assuming since he is a lifeguard, he has a certain pair of swim shots he is supossed to wear? So if he is going against the rules, then yes its legit that he got suspended.

 

He can tell you all day long that a bikini feels more comfortable, and if feels they are, good for him. They bottom line is, its not something he is supossed to be wearing. He got suspeneded not fired. So I guess it depends on how important he feels his job is to him. He either starts wearing what he is supossed to wear, or he will probably get fired.

 

 

 

Jade

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I wasn't referring to that kind of troll. However those troll dolls from the eighties were kind of freaky looking. So back to the topic at hand, its not uncommon for people to get suspened from work of any kind for doing something they shouldn't be or is against the rules. I'm assuming since he is a lifeguard, he has a certain pair of swim shots he is supossed to wear? So if he is going against the rules, then yes its legit that he got suspended.

 

He can tell you all day long that a bikini feels more comfortable, and if feels they are, good for him. They bottom line is, its not something he is supossed to be wearing. He got suspeneded not fired. So I guess it depends on how important he feels his job is to him. He either starts wearing what he is supossed to wear, or he will probably get fired.

 

Jade

 

No, there isn't a uniform with his lifeguard, he was suspended for 'offensive behaviour'.

 

I can't understand why a guy would want to wear a bikini. Yet he is so masculine. It's contradictory :confused:

 

What do I do?

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You ever thought that maybe it is something else to this story besides wearing a bikini don't think they will sack him for that !! He isn't telling you everything ..Find out what is going on he is obviously lying to you.. Good luck

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"What do I do?"

 

 

 

What do you feel you need to do? Do you want to stay with him? If so thats fine, and maybe he does feel bikinis are more comfortable, but the bottom line is he shouldn't be wearing them at his job if its against the rules or inapproperate. If he were a cross dresser, do you feel this is something you can live with or get passed? I'm assuming he doesn't wear womens clothes or bikinis around the house, just at his job? Have you asked him if he was going to stop wearing bikinis at work? If so what has he said?

 

 

 

Jade

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If he is a cross dresser how do you know he isn't gay? Your choice to stay noone can tell you what to do ..

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