Davidh290 Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 Ok I met this girl named Jessie on her 21st birthday and we hit it off great! She was hammered though. Well I found her again and I emailed her and she was all like Hey I was just thinking about you! So I was like hey we should go out sometime here's my number! I haven't heard from her since. although that was like at 5pm today. I really like her and she likes doing the same things I do. I really don't want to screw this up so can some one please help me out?
BigB Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 Wait a couple days or so, and then invite her to do something with you. She may call you, but some girls don't like to make the first call.
JayKay Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 Give her a couple of days to get back to you. She may have school, work or social obligations. Or she might be in the process of breaking up with someone.
Author Davidh290 Posted January 27, 2006 Author Posted January 27, 2006 She and I have a lot of things in common and shes talked to me but how do I know when it's a good time to ask her to hang out?
Groovy Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 Do you have her number? If so call her. I myself will not call the guy first and she might feel the same. It's not like your nagging her, just one call to let her know. And if she's not interested then you can move on and stop wondering.
hyakku Posted January 28, 2006 Posted January 28, 2006 First things first, get her number. You initiate the call, make it brief, "Hey I it was fun talking to you had fun. Talk some more Yada Yada. Alright well hey let's get together, "X" day (you make the suggestion, it oozes confidence) for Tea or Coffee (Keep it light, simple and fun. You don't have to buy your way into a womans pants), if she says no I've got plans say something funny like, "Cancel em I'm alot more fun." Or if she suggests a different date change the time a little (theres a reason behind this just change it maybe a few minutes earlier or later). If you don't schedule just say, alright well gotta run we can schedule something later on. She says yes say something like, "Great, if nothing else you sound like you'll make a great friend" (technique I learned from a guy, its amazing, its not saying you want to BE friends, but its ambiguous and will have her thinking if you really like her or not), and just hang up. Go in with the mindset that she is getting the better end of this because YOU are a fun guy, and its a privelege that you are giving her. If you don't think like this, START too, assume you can do no wrong, have fun pointing out flaws with her (like you would a friend, teasing and having fun), and be confident, if you're too focused on, "I can't mess up. I can't mess up. I can't mess up". You will mess up. And please, do NOT try to BUY her into liking you or BORE her into liking you. Neither of these will work. Unless she's a crazy goldigger, and you don't want that do you?
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