Author blah1234 Posted January 26, 2006 Author Posted January 26, 2006 An obese crack addict? How does that happen? Seriously, I thought crack addicts were all like walking, anorexic-looking, emaciated skeletons. Isn't crack supposed to be like the greatest diet plan known to man? Makes you all hyper and what not? Apparently, one of the reasons he started doing it was because he wanted to loose weight. I have no idea how much he weighed before he started... or it is possible that he was just too fat for it to have any real weight loss effect.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 The most pathetic thing i done while dealing with a breakup is sleep with the jerk that done me wrong and think that would get him back!! Boy was i dumb he got what he wanted and left ..
ReluctantRomeo Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 losing myself in dark memories today... Awww, I'm sorry Slub My ex referred to it as "desperate", but I prefer to call it closure. I don't like my life to be filled with "if onlys"...so sometimes I've gone that bit further than dignity dictates I should, simply to avoid future regrets. Probably it's the case that the person you take the risks for won't appreciate or admire you for it.... Actually I have admired girls who have done this to me. I've never yet gone back on a romantic decision (so it didn't work for them), but I agree that someone who is willing to take a risk is way more attractive than a coward. And my best friend won his ex-gf, now happy wife, back this way. So it does work sometimes. But in your case, Jen, you've already made your feelings clear. Time for the long walk. 2
ALC Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 The most pathetic thing that I've ever done is go over to my ex's place and confess my love for her thinking that it would help me get her back. It clearly wasn't the right thing to do. It did nothing but make me look like a pathetic little bitch that was incapable of dealing with the break-up. It also didn't help that I had a panic attack and fainted on her front lawn. Geez, I really made a fool of myself. 1
Mz. Pixie Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 I sent him an email asking him this: how do you say “i love you” to someone and then a couple of days later tell them you don’t want them in your life anymore? how do you do that? please tell me how to turn my heart to ice like you have so that i don’t have to feel pain…or feel anything for anyone. please teach me your secrets of deception and emotional detachment so that i can use people and don’t have to care about anyone ever again so i’ll never be hurt again Jen, I think you need to read Love Must Be tough or He's just not than into you. This guy is such a loser, you're not! Have a little more respect for yourself than to let him control your emotions one more minute. 1
lindya Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 The most pathetic thing that I've ever done is go over to my ex's place and confess my love for her thinking that it would help me get her back. It clearly wasn't the right thing to do. It did nothing but make me look like a pathetic little bitch that was incapable of dealing with the break-up. It also didn't help that I had a panic attack and fainted on her front lawn. Geez, I really made a fool of myself. Incidents like that are just best locked away in a little box and sent to the crematorium. Imagine if it started to become commonplace to hold funerals for break-ups. A minister could read out all the happy memories, and these would be placed in an urn that the dumpee took home with them. The bad memories would also be read out (including the ex's "dumping speech"...ideally the ex would come along and re-deliver this at the service, but that might not always be feasible). As the bad stuff was read out, the dumpee could rock back and forth weeping whilst comforted by close friends and family. Other friends would boo and hiss...or just cry in sympathy. Led by the minister, the congregation would then stand up and sing "Special" by Garbage. After that, recordings of all the horrible stuff would be cremated...with the ashes being placed in a repulsive looking "devil's urn" and buried in a home 2000 ft below ground level.
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 Jen, I think you need to read Love Must Be tough or He's just not than into you. This guy is such a loser, you're not! Have a little more respect for yourself than to let him control your emotions one more minute. I know Mz. P. You're right. And intellectually, I get it. But my heart is another story, and hasn't caught up to my brain yet. And for now, my heart seems to be winning the battle of wits. Yeah, I read that book "He's Just Not That Into You", and it really is true. All of it is true. Heck, I even quoted part of the book when him and I had an argument last month (the part about men knowing how to use a phone). Of course, that didn't exactly get me the results I was looking for. He got pretty pissed about me "using a book to prove what an a**h*** he is."
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 After that, recordings of all the horrible stuff would be cremated...with the ashes being placed in a repulsive looking "devil's urn" and buried in a home 2000 ft below ground level. Lindya, I LOVE your idea! But I would make one small change. The urn should be buried in the dumpers back yard with a headstone bearing the message, "Burn in hell, a**h***".
mintjulep Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 I literally got down on my knees, crying and begged for [them!] back. UGH... Sad to say, it happened twice. The first boy (in high school), took me back...for a few days. The second boy happened this past summer. He (thankfully!!!) did not take me back. I don't "regret" doing it either time, because it's demonstrative of how passionately I feel. But was it pathetic? HECK YES.
basscatcher Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 I know that we all have done some really stupid/pathetic things after having our hearts broken.... o'man-'Pathetic thing you done" that stems back years ago and even recently. *gotten really drunk:sick: *stalked the person:confused: *showered the person with love letters pouring my heart out:love: *went psycho on him---hitting, slapping, name calling all while crying:eek: *seduced the next man who showed interest in me and dumped him after sex. (I've done this several times...bad me... ) (did this last summer before joining LS) 1
Toronto Posted January 27, 2006 Posted January 27, 2006 I just did something really really stupid. It was his birthday last weekend. I wanted to send him a small gift, a token. Nothing romantic but something that was 'inside' between him and I. I gave this small gift to a mutual friend to give to him. The friend didn't get a chance to see him until last night when they went out for dinner, along with the new girlfriend of course. The mutual friend waited until the new girlfriend was in the washroom and gave him the gift asking him to just wait and open it later. Ex doesn't listen and opens it anyways and before the mutual friend could explain that it was from me new girlfriend comes back to the table. So my ex just thought it was from the friend. Oh sure, he thought I might have put him up to it but it was just a big waste of my time, effort and care. I was asking for trouble. Of course I'd been hoping that the gift would at least get a thank you email from him. So far, nothing.
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