LN8840K Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 Day 28 no contact, I was told today the ex approached my mother in the grocery store a week or two ago, seemed she just wanted to tell my mother she was going out of town for 3 days. I don't understand why after what happened she would even approach my mother and seemed overly enthusiastic to tell her she was leaving town for 3 days .... they were not even that close .... get out of my life hellian
Lonestar Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 Sounds like she wanted to make sure you found out. People can be evil after break ups, even if they initiated it. It's like the post card from the past that says "hey look at me! I've moved on, loser." Ignore her.... I bet she'd love to hear that you were still pining over her for an easy ego boost.
CaliGuy Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 anyone else have any input ? Not sure what you are asking. If you are asking us to read her mind and figure out what she's thinking, that's impossible. Who knows why she did it. She probably was just making small talk with your mom. She hasn't contacted you and it's not like she sought your mom out, they just happened to be in the same place. Stick to NC and try not to over-analyze her actions. Are you working on letting go completely? If so, you won't care what she had to say to your mo,. Good luck.
Author LN8840K Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 If you are asking us to read her mind and figure out what she's thinking, that's impossible. So you think that's asking too much ? ? it's not like she sought your mom out actually it's like she did, since she did the approaching
CaliGuy Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 So you think that's asking too much ? ? One of the things we tend to do after a breakup is analyze and then over-analyze everything. Our Ex's past and current actions especially. Who knows what your Ex is thinking. If she wants to get back with you she will initiate contact with you. If you want her back, make sure it's light and breezy, no negativity and no talking about the past (that's for a later time). I can't give you an answer and I doubt anyone else can other than some educated guesses.
cal gal Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 I think when someone is nervous and they run into a familiar face they tend to do the babble thing out of nervousness. When my family members run into my ex (who did the cheating) he is so nervous - but at the same time feeling as though he wants to stay connected. Anything that was discussed should be discounted as nervous, idle chatter. What the circumstances are and what was said is irrelevant, take it with a grain of salt, and move on. Do not analize anything, it is not worth your thought processes, just move FORWARD in order to make life happy! Pay no attention, distract yourself!
pippen_2k Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 Im sure your mum is the bomb, but she probably shouldnt have told you she ran into your ex. Some things better left unsaid.
Author LN8840K Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 I find it slightly amusing at this point, I am getting hang ups, wrong numbers, and a few blocked calls here lately....going from none for the past 6 months.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 I have been getting alot of private numbers calling and hanging up....but my ex wouldent be doing that hes....what would he new gf think? ha
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