sarah_86 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 i love my boyfriend very much and i never want to lose however he is a very heavy pot smoker and he knows i am totally agianst this. He is very unsocialable and i often find myself wanting more from this relationship. i have been having very sting thoughts and feelings for one of his non smoking friends latley and i think he may feel the same. Please help i dont what to do.
whichwayisup Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 I think you need to take a step back and decide what you want out of relationship with your boyfriend. Is it serious? Can you see yourself marrying him? How much does he smoke pot? And if he is anti social he may not change. That is something you will have to accept. The pot smoking will continue to be an issue too if he doesn't slow that down or quit. Turning to his friend is not a good idea, if you don't want to be in the relationship, end it and be alone for a while. Don't involve yourself with anyone else, especially "his" friend. That is going to cause alot of problems and it just isn't right. Your needs are not being met and somehow this friend has caught your eye and he is making you feel good about you. Take the time and think this through.
Lonestar Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 If he's that heavy of a smoker, you're not dating him, you're dating the drug. That would be a problem. If he's also not giving you the attention you need then it's time for you to move on. I suppose you could try talking to him first and tell him he needs to make changes, but my guess is you won't get anywhere. I hope everything works out for you.
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