Love_Love Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Hi All, My Bf and I are dealing with a LDR because he needs to work about 4 hours away until the end of the summer. This started in Sept. Things have been good since then, but since the beginning of January he has been a little distant. He says he is busy with work and that I am just getting a little dramatic and that i need to calm down. I guess I am upset because we are supposed to see each other once a month and we arent in January. I asked him if i can come up to see him the last week of Jan and he said to just wait until our plans on feb 17th weekend. This REALLY upset me. because i feel like we should see each other whenever we can. He explained that he has family stuff to do and travelling and he would like some time for himself and that its fine to wait until the 17th of Feb and i shouldn't be upset. well i am! we talk 3 times a week and exchange emails regularly. I am a very over-bearing suspicious person who needs to check herself A LOT in order to stay calm (its my worst trait) So i am just feeling out of control, upset and thinking all of these horrible things on why he wouldnt want me to visit this weekend. You may think i sound whiney, which may be true. I am just looking for some support, some points of view. Is it ok? Am i just being dramatic? Does this just happen in the LDR from time to time? I also get nervous that when i get like this it drives him away and puts a dent in our relationship.
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