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fallenheart45

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Love them. I'm in heaven at the gym... probably why I go there so much.

 

Girls that do lots of squats at the gym make me drool :lmao:

 

I'm not musclebound in any way, shape or form but I am in great shape :)

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Great shape is awesome!

 

I don't really like a man to be buff(so to speak). I like a man that can give me strength in alot of areas of life. I want to have a clear understanding that

he challenges his mind body and soul - not just the working out at the gym thing!

 

A wonderful sense of humor (and wit) goes WAAAAAAY beyond any work out could portray to me!

 

so - what were we saying we should keep in shape? he he ....

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You guys are a riot! :lmao: Thanks! :)

 

Actually I live in IL

 

And yes...I think she wants to know that she can have me back "IF" choosen to want me..

 

sigh...too bad it wasn't for real!

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You guys are a riot! :lmao: Thanks! :)

 

Actually I live in IL

 

And yes...I think she wants to know that she can have me back "IF" choosen to want me..

 

sigh...too bad it wasn't for real!

 

So what you do is initiate NC and don't play her stupid games.

 

Dude, go out with friends. Wear a wife beater to a club and let the girlies see your muscles. <in Ahhhnold voice. "Get out of 'da way you puny tiny person you."

 

You have no time for this chick, now prove it. Don't settle for any little crumb of her attention.

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You guys are a riot! :lmao: Thanks! :)

 

Actually I live in IL

 

And yes...I think she wants to know that she can have me back "IF" choosen to want me..

 

sigh...too bad it wasn't for real!

 

Sorry fallenheart45, Our little female yapping overtook your thread. :o Sorry that you're hurting but you sound like you're getting there. You're not quite there yet because from this last post it sounds like you would still be willing to take her back after what she's done to you. You seem like a really nice person and you will find someone else who appreciates that. Don't let her toy with you and use you to pump her ego. She doesn't deserve to have such a great guy. :)

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yeah I am getting there...but not really in the same sense :(

 

I don't START CONTACT WHAT SO EVER!!!!! TRUST ME =)

When I sign on line, I don't even IM her. In fact, she is not even on my buddy list.

 

I am tring to do what you said to ignore her, and I am......

Don't you think iits aleast allright for me to sign on and talk to my other friends, even though she can see me and I can't see her on line?

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I am tring to do what you said to ignore her, and I am......

Don't you think iits aleast allright for me to sign on and talk to my other friends, even though she can see me and I can't see her on line?

 

What's your goal here, to get back with her?

 

If you want to maintain NC, then:

 

a. If you use YAHOO, set her privacy to see you as "Permanently Offline"

b. If you use MSN, you can set the privacy screen to "Only people on my contact list can see me online."

c. If you use AIM then you can sign on but just stay hidden to talk to your friends.

 

There are ways to keep her from seeing you online. My guess is you kind of want her to see you online ;)

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fallenheart45

damnnnnn son! you got it gonig on! : )

 

Actually I really dont' care if she sees me online. I don't think I have to go to the extremem to change my ways, I am doing what I normally do, and I don't intend to envolve her...

 

but on the other hand,.....ugh, I hate to admit it..but I feel like IF she see's my name she won't forget me as easily. I KNOW THAT SOUNDS STUPID AS HELLL!!!! :mad:

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She will think about you more if she see's you OFFLINE - She will think that you are not at home, all alone on a computer, she will think you are out having fun and that will be far more appealing to her!

 

Block her from seeing you and watch the emails or calls fly in after a while!

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hahaha what a loser, she wanted to show you a picture of them" oh but dont worry were not dating"

 

 

she was trying to make you jealous

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